Gemini - Gemini Relationship

Let's get the math right, a Gemini and a Gemini equals a group of four bright, active people, two sets of twins, tossing ideas, dreams andchallenges back and forth between themselves and the world at large.  While each may see life in different colors, they all travel at the same rate of speed, in that they all understand one another's need for freedom.

When two Gemini's get together, getting their vibes, rhythms and mental perspectives working in a steady pattern, the four of them can use each other as a reassuring tie to reality.  From the home base of their mutual empathy, they can run out and seduce the world, return briefly to be understood, then go out again on a new mental seduction.  If you're getting this, you must be a Gemini, because it's all Astrologically correct, but complicated Mercury double talk.  If you are reading this to understand a Gemini couple, hang in there.

Gemini double-talk is an aid to superimposing two apparently polarized opinions onto a steroscopic wholeness of third-dimensional depth, the third dimension added by the perceptive recipient of the words.  Still here?  You need to become accustomed to word games if you expect to play verbal Pong-Ping with the Twins, and Pong Ping is the same as Ping-Pong when you're gazing into the Gemini mirror.  More clear now?

Each Gemini contains a twin mirror image of themselves, in reverse, the positive and negative poles of their personality.  Trouble is, Gemini seldom knows which of the split personalities is the real one.  Should anyone ask, "Will the real Twin stand up and be recognized?", two separate people would get up and the game of hide and seek would begin again.  Gemini's tries on masks in an effor to find the true person he or she really is.

Gemini is a mental Sign, they are driven to spinning their brains almost continually, even in their sleep, thinking, theorizing, figuring, projecting, condemming, endorsing, discarding, sorting, and analyzing the cold, hard facts, at the same time they're chasing their visionary dream.  You can see why they're all human jugsaw puzzles.

Gemini roams the world, either mentally or physically, or both, in search of an elsuive ideal of perfect truth and happiness, then often return home again, to listen to a bird singing in a tree, the same bird, same song, same tree they knew as children.  After traveling all over the mental continents of the imaginations, they sometimes, if they're lucky, realize, at last, that their truest dreams were dreamed when childhood's perception wa clear and uncontaminated by adult logic and cynicism.

A double Gemini relationship gives the special and unique satisfaction of association with a person enough like one's own self that there's little fear of rejection of personality, although there's always a danger of an overbalance of the dimilar characteristics.  The duel Gemini relationship is especially comforting to each of the four of them, because it's always reassuring to have a pal, relative, enighbor, business associate, lover or mate who's as messed up as you are yourself.  Saves a lot of tiresome explanations and apologies.  It can also be wearing on the nervous system, because the continual frustration of attempting to fool someone who anticipates all your manuvers and rationalizations.

There are some disadvantages in the Gemini - Gemini relationship.  Lacking the stability of the less complicated Astrology Signs, they can tempt themselves to scatter their talents to the four winds, neither one willing to hold down the other or able to provide the necessary patience and dependability for success, either on an emotional or material level.

Woman - Man

Although it would be more fitting to call them boy and girl, whatever their illusionary chronological age, are sometimes drawn together for no more reason than that it's fun to have someone to cross the street with.
Because all typical Geminis are naturally glib, bright conversationalists, when two of them first meet, both may talk a lot, and it seems like they're not thinking of one another seriously.  Behind the chatter, they are, more seriously then either will admit.  They never say everything that's on their minds to each other, not even years later when they've been in love long enough to know they can trust one another.  There's always something held back.

Geminis in love might ask themselves, each about the other, is the a quality called, faithfulness or fidelity?  Yes, but the door to that particular room in the Gemini heart is tightly sealed, and it takes more than a passkey to open it.  It takes trust and time.  Tow kinds of trust, the complete trust each must give to the other, and the trust required to believe in self, that what you love is really what you need, and all you'll ever need. (That's what takes time.)  But time is free.  Both can use as much of it as they like to find that answer within themselves, and once it's been found and the door unlocked, Gemini will be loyal and true forever.

Astrology doesn't have a final answer.  Perhaps the Gemini boy and girl who are in love will just have to forget about that romantic togetherness formula of, "becoming one", because there will always be four of them.  But that quadruples their chances for happpiness.  So the odds are good if they cover their bets with the double collateral of lots of turst, and lots of patience.