Gemini - Cancer Relationship
There's a party in progress. Both Gemini and Cancer are good talkers. The Crab's ability to remember details and to tell a story with sensitive perception, laced with imagination and humor, can hold a crowd spellbound. If there's also a Gemini in the room, weaving tall takes with wit and charm, and maybe doing a few card tricks on the side, the bystanders won't know which of the three rings to watch at the circus. (One ring for Cancer, two rings for Gemini.)
Before the party is over one or the other, maybe both, will whip out a camera and start snapping. Gemini and Cancer share a love of photography. Threre are four Astrology Signs that have potential for professional photography, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Pisces. Each for a different reason.
Both Gemini and Cancer are dreamers, and both expert in the art of getting publicity, the Crabs pretend not to be interested, but fool no one, they adore attention. They both also have vivid imaginations, and they're both inclined to laugh in public and cry in private. You may think it's difficult to tell them apart. It is not. The Twins prefer to dash around, here and there, communicating ideas and dreams, to being the Big Boss and running the show. The Crabs definitely do not enjoy communicating, especially their own secrets, and prefer to run things, not necessarily out front, with a brass band, but still very much in charge.
Crabs are impressionable, sensitive men, women, and children. They tend to be periodically contrary and sullen, borrding over slights, real or imagined. The Twins can usually sweet-talk or double-talk them into crawling back out of their shells. Gemini is the mental or actual wanderer, a lonely drifter, cut loose from ties, emotionally, sometimes litterally, homeless, lost and seeking, the eternal child. A Cancer is the eternal Mother or Father, protective, warm, tender and coaxing. It's little wonder these two are drawn to each other, part, then return, then part again.
The element of Water, when it saturates Air with enough moisture, causes a shower that clears the atmosphere of fog, smog, and misunderstanding. Consequently, Cancer can make Gemini pour out those Twin desires, shed some truthful tears, and pause a moment, now and then, to remember the things that really matter.
Gemini Woman - Cancer Man
Crab Boy lives in his sensations, emotions and imagination. He loves history and likes to read about the glory of bygone ages. But he's rather romantic about the past, his own and historical chraracters, and he doesn't like to be reminded that the Knights of the Round Table may have possessed some flaws, that the horses they rode had burrs in their tails, they wore swetty shirts under their chain mail, knights, not the horses, ate with their fingers, and may have slept with comely wenches on dirty straw. In the Crab's sentimental mind, a knight has impeccable table manners, and he rides a snow-white steed, with a fluffy, carefully brushed tail. There's nothing wring with a Crab treating a Gemini girl to his sense of chivalry, But she should be aware, even if he's not, of the historical fact that many a knight, reached into his visor for the key he carried to the iron chastity belt of his modest lady fair, and sometimes pulled out the wrong key. A Gemini girl can get carried away by the gallantry conjured up in her own imagination.
Look out here G girl, when Crab boy's possessiveness crosses swords with your insistance on freedom, the clash can cut into your mutual dreams cruelly. When Crab boy discovers this girl is really two women, one content to nestle happily beside him in the tower room of the castle, the other determined to wander the slopes, playing with the antelope, chasing the hounds, he may pout, he may snap at her, he may retreat into crabby seclusion in the dark, damp dungeon, waiting for her to trip down the stone steps and entice him out again. If there's something else on her mind, he'll have a long wait down there.
Twin girls have been know to forget mundane responsibilities like lovers licked in dungeons when they've been caught up in a fitful flight of fancy or a mental whim. Not that she doesn't have a great memory, but other interest take priority sometimes even over love, until she gets lonely. Then she'll come back looking for forgiveness and comfort. Their stroy could have a happy ending after all, since a Crab boy is about as comforting as they make the male animan. No one can be more tender, gentle and understanding to a lost and mixed -up Gemini girl than a Crab.
Happiness in not impossobile, but will take patience on her part and some adaptability on his. It won't be easy because patience for her is tough to come by. For him, the constant mood changes are tough to follow. He may pass through a mood of reckless abondon to match hers, then return to his hard shell before she's even had a chnce to enjoy it. It takes patience and devotion on both sides.
Gemini Man - Cancer Woman
Normally, a Gemini man is able to analyze people quickly, with a swift, sure insight. Normally, a Cancer girl is acutely perceptive of homan nature. Yet, for all his cleverness and mental agility, and for all her talent at worming secrets out of people, the one puzzle Gemini and Cancer can't seem to solve is each other. There's alwasy a piece missing. Ask a Gemini man what disturbs him most about the Crab girl he loves, and he'll tell you, "I never know what she's thinking." Ask Crab girl what troubles her most, she'll say "I don't know what he wants."
In their sexual relationship, pure physical sensation will be less emphasized than the passions of the mind and a kind of emotional eorticism. Her affectionate tenderness and vivid imagination are a good balance for his delicate touch and his sensitive sexual nature. When they're expressing their love on a physical level, they may even find that missing peice to be the puzzle of each other they're always looking for, and become whole, for brief moments. Because she needs constant, tangible proof that she's really needed, not just routinely desired, his airy embraces could sometimes cause her to wish he would hold her more closely, and longer, just so she can be sure. Their most ideal sexual fulfillment together may frequently be during the Full Moon, when she seems to possess a strange, magnetic power to gently reach into the secret corners of this Twin heart and draw him away from his dreams back into the intimate mystery of their union, the deepest dream of all.
He is impatent with her intrained economical streak if she tries to transfer her financial fears to him. She'll wonder if he knows how it feels to be poor, and suggest he'll find out if he continues to throw money away. He'll simply shrug and let her know being broke is temporary, being poor is a state of mind.
A Cancer maiden will underatand this man better if she realizes, however he may appear to the world, to himself he's eternally a young boy, who, in some way, has managed to pilot a plane high in the sky. He diverts himself now and then with sudden dives and spins, fascinated by finding a prettier cloud, discovering a more beautiful sunrise or sunset, all the while excitedly aware that the great Universe and its glittering galexies lay unexplored for him. If she truly loves him. for keeps, she'll cheerfully be ready to pack up and move on when his free spirit grows restless, turning each new rest stop, however temporaty, into a worm and welcoming haven, as only a Cancer woman can. This is the thing a Gemini man needs, to be ale to wander, yet never leave home. Gradually, she'll tenderly implant herself inside his own longings, until finally, anywhere he hears her lovely laughter becomes home.
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