Gemini-Virgo Relationship
Playful Gemini Twins, may indeed, seem like heartless children to the more sensible and serious Virgos. Always out chasing cobwebs and mirages, jumping bout like grasshoppers, getting caught in summer braiinstroms and trying to be in two places at once. To the typical Virgo, Gemini's quick changes of both heart and mind are clearly flaws which need immediate correction.
Perfection is not a quality Geminis enjoy cultivating. They do appreciate, perhaps admire, and need the more stable attitude of Virgo, and are often relieved to find the Virgo person still there, in the same place where they were left, when Gemini flew away a few hours, weeks, months or years, to see what was happening on the other side of the mountain. But if they are going to be scolded when they return, they'll just skip off again. Children never like scolding. All Geminis are essentially children at heart. Not Virgos.
Virgo's are possessed of a heavy sense of life's duties, and a mature sense of reliability. They either live up to it or they feel quilty about not doing it develop hies, ulcers, or hiccups. Flip side, Gemini seldom feels guilty about anything. At least not where it shows.
With Virgo everything shows. Especially secret, nagging worries. Since Virgo rules the bowels, intestines, and solar plexus, these nagging worries, expressed first in a slight frown, then tight lips, can cause actual infection or disability in these areas. The more secret the worries, the more apt they are to manifest into nausea, indigestion or constipation. Virgo's should get it out in the open more often, talk about it, express themselves, say what is on their minds.
Gemini is expert at gettin it out in the open. Gemini can teach Virgo how to excel in gab, gleeful glibness and scintillating syntax. Virgo knows how to spell all those words, but putting them into action is another matter.
It must be admitted that the average Virgo man or woman does not practice provoking trouble, and does not usually respond to it quickly either, unlike Geminis, with their constant stirring up of a tempest from a breath of choppy air, and often reacting in hurricane fashion to what seems to them to be constant, critical carping and harping from Virgo. Of course, to Gemini, a quarrel is not really a qurral, merely an intellectual encounter. With Virgo, arguments go deeper, and the hurt lasts longer
In any dispute between Gemini and Virgo, Gemini will nearly always win the main point, being faster on the draw and quicker with the cinching retort. But winning a quarrel can't settle everything. May not settle anything with Virgos, who know that what appears to be an absolutely factual statement can still be full of errors and misleading insinuations. The greatest talent of all Twins is the fascinating ability to twist truth and falsehood in such a way as to weave them together and make each appear to be the other. It fools almost everyone but a Virgo.
Gemini Woman-Virgo Man
The first problem this man and woman face is the contrast between her gregariousness and his tendency to reclusivity. If he's a typical Virgo male, he would really prefer to live alone, without the necessity of having a constant companion tagging along beside him, even if she's bright, pretty, aoft and squeezable. A man can't spend all his time squeezing a wife. Some hours must be spent making plans for future security.
Consequently, when the Gemini girl seeks periodic flings of freedom, her Virgo man may grumble a bit, but inwardly he sighs with relief. Now he can have a little peace and quiet, to figure the nature of things. As for jealousy, Virgo won't be unless it is indicated he need to be. Most of the time Gemini's are accused of infidelity and it isn't so, not always, but most of the time. The deal is that Gemini's need to communicate with a variety of people, the oppisite sex represents about half of their circle. So what's the fuss?
Practicality, too little or too much of it, will be the true underlying cause of many of their arguements. He has too much to please her and she has too little to suit him, providing each of typical of their Astrolgy Sign.
If he expects a neat house and on time meals, it won't take long for him to find out she's not sure there's a need for perfection in these areas. She's capable of being an exqusite hostess, but there's seldom anyone brought home to hostess, and if she chooses, she can create a wonderful home atomophere. But it's doubtful that she will scrub floors with true enthisiasm and excitement, and if she smokes, hopefull not, there may be a few dirty ashtrays around. This won't make a hit with him, because most Virgos detest smoking to begin with, and they positively despise the offensive odor of full ashtrays.
Surprisingly, the usual, petty, day-to-day irritations may not cause any major quarrels between them. A Virgo man doesn't really demand a whole lot from either love or marriage, except maybe his own Vicks salve jar, and neither does she. He would appreciate some punctuality concerning meals, at least a semblance of faithfullness. But, in general, a Gemini girl is adaptable enough to cope with things that could cause despair in other femans, and he's practical enough not to expect love and marriage to be made either in heaven or in hell, but somewhere in-between.
Gemini Man - Virgo Woman
This love affair may have a rough romantic row to hoe. That doesn't mean they can't raise cabbage together, but their garden of love wil need frequent weeding.
Most Gemini men have forgotten their birth dates, either innocently or deliberately, by the time they reach twenty-one. Virgo girls have memorized the hour, minute and second of birth, besides that, they believe eternal youth is not only impossible, but would be a bore. He finds it both possible and enchanting.
When they first fall in love, due to their mutual curiosity, she'll be thrilled with the possibilities of casual, careless living, while he'll be flattered with her rapt attention, her alert mind, and her vey feminine manner. After a time, she'll question the wisdom of setting her life to a man who seems to be eternally wandering, either physically, mentally or meotionally, his thoughts and actions no more predictable than the weather. He may latter feel her attention is a bit too rapt, her mind too alert to allow him his needed prifacy now and then, in which to do his abstract thinking.
If she doesn't take him too seriously, their relationship can be ;mentally exciting, emotionally intriguing, and lots of fun. But, Virgo takes everything seriously, and she's not going to make an exception of a lover or husband.
There's not doubt they'll respect one aonther's mental abilities, yet they may toooften stifle open expressions of affection in each other. Neither he or she may comprehend the need for depth in an emotional relationship. She'll attend to all her duties regarding him, neglectin no details. She'll sew on buttons, give excellent advice on his carrer, if and when he should ask, seldom or never pressing her opinions upon him uninvited. She'll be a stimulating companion.
He'll find time to talk with her about all her worries, will encorage discussions between them about anything that's on her mind, and allow her lots of room for the free development of her own ideas, ideals and goals. He won't smother her with undue jealousy or possessiveness, but he may cause her to feel boxed-in with his sometimes excessive prying and probing, on a verbal level.
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