Taurus - Pisces Relationship
Pisces could show Taurus more imaginative ways to make money, and teach them the joys of sharing it with others, along with the truth of the infallible Universal Law that the more you give, the faster it multiplies.
Conversely, Taurus could teach Pisces the proper respect for minimal security, that it's wiser to save at least a few dollars, even if you give away a hundred or so, in case there are a few lean days before that Universal Law goes into effect. It's such a drag to have to sit on the corner in the rain, holding out a tin cup. The very idea gives the Bull nervous palpitation, and makes his hair stand on end.
An interesting difference between these two Astrology Signs is, very few Bulls have nicknames, and if they do, they usually don't like them. Pisces most always has a nickname, or a secret desire for one. If after awhile their friends don't come through, they will adopt an alias on their own. They like the exotic, and like to keep their idenities hidden from snoopers.
The fish can't stand direct questions, or being pinned down to a positive stand. It's the nature of the fish to glide in and out and around a situation looking at all sides, and absorbing its various implications - or glide away quietly from a controversy that chops up the waters around him, and threatens his balance.
None of that sneaking away for a Taurus. What is there to be faced, he faces, with open courage, and he will remain standing there stubbornly, until he proves his point. If he can't prove it, after much effort, he turns his strong back and leaves, but he doesn't glide away. He stalks off heavily back to where he started from, with his original opinion clutched tightly in his arms, across his beefy chest.
That's more or less what happens when these two get into an argument. There's seldom a satisfactory or final settlement. But the day can be saved by laughter. Bull's have a rich, delicious sense of humor, based on everyday living. Since the very bright Fish has a fine appreciation for humor, somehow, between the grins, they'll either forget their differences, or resolve them through the compromise of their likenesses.
Taurus Woman-Pisces Man
When Bull Girl plays romantic marbles, she shoots to win, and keep all the aggies. But when she forgets her common sense, she'll find herself playing "Blind Man's Bluff," and that's a game she could lose, unless she cheats a little, and peaks out from under the blindfold over her eyes. She might as well, if she's playing with a Fish Boy. He'll certainly cheat by peaking, to see where the relationship is leading. If it looks like a permanent attachment, he could be a poor loser, and scoot away before he gets caught. That's his protective reflex action, he'll be back. There's lots of hope for a relationship between the Bull and Fish.
Both like peace and quiet, both believe in letting sleeping dogs lie. Why ask for trouble? There's always plenty to go around. Bull Girl's patience will serve her well if she's invloved with a Fish Boy, they're never on time. Fish Boy may wonder what his true image is to the Bull Girl. He won't really care, but he may wonder. A Fish usually doesn't work up a anxiety symptoms when he's in love, not on the surface anyway. He may worry about the rent money, what life really means, what the future holds and such, but to Pisces, romance is a natural state of being. He is at home in romantic waters, where he learned to swim and dive at a shockingly early age. Bull Girl may have been cracking up over Howdy Doody, swooning over American Bandstand, depending on her age, while he was planning his first seduction, or being seduced.
Love or the fulfillment of it, comes late to the average Taurus female, which is why she appreciates it and values it more than women born under other Astrology Signs. It's the waiting that makes things seem special and exciting, whether it's Christmas, Groundhog's Day or the first kiss.
The three-part formula for breaking a Bull Girl's hear is: false primises, deception, and idle drifting. The triple formula for healing it is: honesty, fidelity and dependability. If he remembers that, it could be the beginning of the end of his loneliness.
If she accepts his need for periods of isolated contemplation to relax his jangled nerves, he'll always return to her serenity, for a few jokes, a worm bath, a cup of hot soup, and those throaty midnight wispers. That could be the beginning of a love as special, and worth waiting for, as Christmas morning, Groundhog's Day. Beneath the passion they feel is the warmth of true friendship, which never fails to deepen love, when it's passed the test of time.
Taurus Man - Pisces Woman
One of the things that may disturb the Bull Boy is the Fish Girl's approach to the truth. She sees truth as what she feels at the moment, and what she feels at the moment is always vulnerable to suggestion and susceptible to change, as the people, the situation and the viewpoint either dilute it or strengthen it. Pisces does not see truth as a static, but as a constantly altering thing, depending upon many interpretations.
The Bull sees truth as a fact, eternal and unchanging. That's what you call a polarity of opinion. Who's right? Both really, depending on what truth you are looking for. Some are never changing, some have multiple sides, some are ever changing, emotions, public opinion, being everything in the universe is relative, why should truth be an exception?
She has one thing going for her that's cool. Behind her sweetly compliant exterior hides a quick, bright and highly perceptive mind. She'll catch him up when he least expect it, if what he thinks he's getting away with is a flirtation with another woman, although, she may forgive him almost too quickly, at least the first time. It's when he's trying to get away with submerging her dreams, and bending her fluid nature to his own rigid one, the she needs practice in toughness.
Not that all their problems arise from his overemphasis on male dominance. Some of them may be caused by her procrastination, her exasperating elusiveness, her secrecy, exaggerated dependence, or lack of self-confidence, accompanied with lots of tears. He'll understand her better if he remembers that she not only reflects back all the emotional vibrations in her immediate vicinity, she also absorbs them inwardly through her sympthetic spirit. How would he do going around mopping up everyone's tears, sopping up their fears, reflecting and absorbing everything from hilarity to hysteria? It would make anyone a little unsure and shaky at times.
Their passion is not the explosive sort, but he rare tenderness and affection which is so warmly given, and so quietly received, that makes their union so complete and peace restoring intimacy. There's always a hint of mystery hovering over and around the sexual relationship between Taurus and Pisces, and they're usually both soten to leave it be, maybe sensing that to expose the silent unknown would somehow dim the excitement.
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