Aries - Cancer Relationship
Aries the Ram - Cancer the Crab. with this relationship you have a combination of fire and water, too much fire and the crab dehydrates, too much water, the ram looses enthusiasm. At best this relationship requires a great deal of work. Even with this, they may learn to tolerate each other, and help each other grow, evolve and learn, their differences will always be evident.
Aries wants fast results, Cancer prefers to take their time and evaluate, each sign has different motivations, different approaches to life and different goals, if each can give some of their basic goodness to the other, both will be enriched. This is a fire and water combination, and each knows the other can destroy them.
These two astrology signs are both good leaders, the Rams horns as tough as the Crabs shell, the game is to establish who follows who, when neither intends to be the one. There's always a solution, why not walk side-by-side, no one ahead, no one behind. This is called compromise. Cancer should be the one to initiate this strategy, because compromise pains Aries.
Aries Woman - Cancer Man
Since dance school she has been hesitant to allow anyone lead. Aries women is far too honest to imitate other Sun Sign women, by pretending to allow the man to initiate every word and action, while she smiles with tolerance behind his back. At some point the Aries lady may question her desirability. Then along comes Mr Cancer who courts her with respectful, gallant courtesy, like a prince. He makes her laugh, which always brightens the Aries disposition, making her sweeter to be around. He makes it clear that she excites him, doesn't matter who walks in the door first, who starts conversation, or who calls first. At last! She can be herself around a man. This may be the first time she has felt like a member of the opposite sex.
Both of these astrology sign natives are jealous. Intensely so. The Crab enjoys it more than the Ram, the Crab gets proof that he's loved, Aries will give all the proof he needs, with extras. The Ram gets some sense of emotional security, but prefers lighter doses, once again don't smother Aries. Each enjoys financial security, fame recognition. Their approaches are different, as are their ideas of what to do with their gains. She wants to spend or give away, he wants to save, expand it. The tenacity of the Crab conflicts with the Aries impatience. Aries moves in a direct line, Cancer moves indirectly side to side, she won't understand how he expects to arrive in the East if he travels west.
The Crab tends to keep secrets, which causes Aries to imagine all sorts of things, would be good for him to learn quickly its easier to tell all, because she will pry and prod until she gets it. Another issue, the mother-in-law. If the Crab's mother is alive our Aries lady will have stiff competition, his mother alive or not, will never have made any mistakes of any sort. Maybe our Aries will see this as a challenge to be perfect, she loves a challenge, nobody tops a Ram.
Aries Man - Cancer Woman
The initial appeal is that she seems helpless and feminine these she is, she appears to need his shoulder, his fiery support. When she gives her all, he is convinced no woman can resist him, which he always suspected. All goes well, awhile, then all this giving, feels smothering, remember he loves his freedom.
He will love the magic carpet ride, but if he feels cramped, he might jump off, safety net or not.
Her feminine helplessness, sooner or later he will learn that it's an illusion, she has amazing stamina and tenacity. He admires any kind of strength, and enjoys knowing she will fight back with him now and again.
Money can be at issue, to her it is security, financial and emotional. He likes it too, but putting it in a jar and burying it, doesn't appeal, he thinks of numerous ways to spend it.
To attain success in this relationship, she must not wet his dreams, and he must not forget, when she's crying, to not storm out of the room, but to coddle her in his arms.
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