Aries - Pisces Relationship
Walk up to a Ram state that as an Aries they are probably creative, the Ram will reply, "You can say that again! I'm loaded with original ideas. Would you like to hear some of them?"
Walk up to a Fish (symbol for Pisces), state, "As a Pisces I bet you're involved in one of the water sports, like surfing or scuba diving", the Fish says, "Well I can't swim, but which one do you think I should be involved in? I suppose I could learn----."
Remark to a Ram that if it continues on the same path, it will never become a leader - the Ram will respond, "How would you like a punch in the mouth?"
Remark to a Fish, "If you continue on the same path, you'll never become a leader", Pisces will say, "Really? Gee, I hope you're right."
Aries pattern is aggressiveness, at times to excess. Pisces pattern is accommodation, at times to excess.
When a Ram meets a Fish, it seems that here is a sweet, mild, gentle soul Aries can push around as they please. Sorry to say, water puts out fire. Water is the element of the Fish, while water may be seen as one of the weaker elements, it is the strongest. Ever seen water wear away rock? The secret of water's strength is its non-resistance. Water does not resist.
Often Aries people find that Pisces people are have a restful, cooling effect on their frustrations. A relationship between them is usually beneficial to both. To the Ram, the Fish represent many secrets, which Pisces keeps and won't tell. causing Aries to be exceedingly annoyed. If not that, then the two of them will spend time discussing secrets, or the past sorrows of one or the other. At times the secrecy syndrome is beneficial, but you can be sure, however it works out, that both money and secrecy will form the foundation of their relationship.
On the whole, Aries and Pisces are nicely compatible, neither overly interested in interfering with the other's approach to life, rather complementing it instead. There will be times when they experience some heated, (Aries) or chilly (Pisces) encounters. The Ram having little patience for the sometimes slippery tactics of the elusive Fish. The Pisces motto of "promise anything, and get out of it later" may sound deceptive, yet it's a mind set that keeps Pisces young and tranquil and off the psychiatrist's couch. It also allows Pisces to conserve energy, enabling them to remain composed enough to listen to everyone else's troubles for hours on end. Nevertheless, to Aries, sneaky is sneaky.
Aries Woman - Pisces Man
For the most part this relationship works out better if the rolls are reversed. An Aries female needs a determined, thick-skinned male, who has the aggressiveness to say, "Shut up, and listen," when necessary.
Rest assured it will be necessary from time to time with this girl.
In a way she secretly seeks and longs for someone who will control her firmly, and make her feel feminine on occasion. Someone who will allow her to be boss (half the time) and be the tender, charming Prince of her dreams ( the rest of the time - whatever is left). She needs a strong big brother to protect her, a companion she considers her equal in intelligence, a lover who will physically conquer her, and a quiet man who will not try to confine her spirited personality, or domineer her. It would also be nice if he were a poet.
Her list, of course, goes on, and on. When you consider it carefully, a Pisces man has as many chances to live up to her romantic ideals as any other male. Slim to none. Which, at least makes him starting out even. Pretty good odds.
Most people think every Pisces is a wishy-washy candidate for AA, or group therapy. True, he was born under a complicated and difficult Astrological Sign. He has to pick his way through a haze of daydreams, get caught up in other peoples problems as he swims through life, trying to mind his own business. His ruling planet Neptune is forever leading him into mysterious situations intertwined with intrigue and half-truths that even an Ouija board couldn't get to the bottom of the whole mess. ( This is so for male or female Pisces)
Aries Man - Pisces Woman
Since no man is more male than a Ram, and no woman is more female than a Fish, the love between these two is never flawed by confusion over sexual identification. It's a true mating, in every sense of the word.
When an Aries man and a Pisces woman fall in love, Mother Nature smiles.
Prior to marriage, for a Fish girl, the phone rings constantly with offers for dates. She has an awful time deciding between Tom, Dick or Harry, because she doesn't want to hurt any of them including Don, Bob or John. After marriage, the phone still rings, but it will be neighbors, relatives, friends who need an ear to confide in, or a shoulder to cry on. Mr Ram, might not like having their home turned into a therapy clinic. She should be listening to his troubles. Not part of the time, but all the time. Maybe not on holidays when he's busy with pals, or resting.
Fish girl is an excellent listener. She's humble, and sympathetic, to a fault. A Fish woman who feels that her individuality is being smothered by the dominant ego of the Ram man she lives, usually won't protest loudly, or argue. No matter how desperate she becomes, she's more likely to keep smiling, with a blank expression in her eyes. When he loses his temper, she normally won't fight back. She'll just blink a few times and yawn. The yawn might be a silent scream. This may be the time for Ram man to wonder whether he's neglecting her needs while pursuing his own. Aries is selfish without being aware of it. When it is pointed out to him, he's surprised embarrassed and sorry.
You cannot blame all the trouble on him, however. Fish girl has to accept half the responsibility for her unhappiness, and ask whether she's a little heavy on the martyr routine.
The Fish girl is not a flirt, but what it is, is men flirt with her. She's not promiscuous, she just thinks that admiration from men is the nicest part of being a female. (Does Elizabeth Taylor come to mind?)
As for Ram boy, he's not a playboy type, (doesn't mind the magazine - it's the articles). He won't throw rocks at a little worship from the women now and then, makes his ego feel good. It's all part of being a man.
None of this should cause real trouble, it probably will. Fish girl is inclined to understand and trust her man. Ram boy is never as insistent on freedom for his partner as he is on freedom for himself. Ram boy opinion is that his casual encounters with other women are innocent. Hers are suspect, deliberate maneuvers toward actual unfaithfulness.
Put two completely different kinds of people together, do they love each other less and less or more and more? With Aries and Pisces it's not the differences between them that matter. It's what they have in common - the fear of being hurt. Her vulnerability is easily viewed, his may be disguised by bravery and brashness, but it's just as real, just as painful as hers.
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