Taurus - Taurus Relationship
Somehow rumor has it that Taurus people are inclined to overweight. This is false. Some tend to plumpness, but most do not. They love to cook and they love to eat, normally the physique of the Bull causes excess calories to turn into solid muscle. Lady Taurus and good food results in a look of sturdy coordination, and a slow, sensual grace
Another misconception is that their lazy. Not so. In their minds wasting energy is a sin, the reason Taurus has so much strength is because they conserve it, the way they conserve their money. When you put two Taurus people together, it is difficult to get them to move into any sort of action, unless their angry.
The other misconception is that Taurus is stubborn. Not stubborn, merely determined and firm in their convictions, not continually changing their minds and losing their heads. Bulls change their minds rarely, and lose their heads even less often.
Every Taurus ever born either sings beautifully, as an armature or professional in the shower or tub, while shaving or if nothing else, adores listening to music and dreaming about singing.
A relationship between two Bulls can be placid, stable and mutually comforting. These two are normally sweet, patient Teddy-Bear types, respectful of each other's rights, quietly devoted, and unquestionably loyal.
Bulls consider change suspect, because they are conservative, and that's not a false rumor. If you hear of a Bull who enjoys change, especially abrupt change, they don't have a clue of when their birthday really is.
The most potentially damaging aspect of a Taurus-Taurus association is the reluctance of either Bull to repent when one has seriously offended the other. Even when a Taurean is inwardly convinced that he or she has been mistaken, the tendency is to stubbornly stand by what's been unwisely said or done, because to admit a mistake is uncomfortably close to being weak, and the very word "weakness makes a Bull see red. Once-in-a-great-while one Bull can coax the other to unbend and say "Sorry", or make up, but not often. Sometimes, tickling them helps. They giggle, turn pink, and finally mumble, "I didn't mean it".
It's always easier for Taurus to back down when the disgrace of being wrong is blanketed in humor. Breaks the fall.
The Bull patience is a graceful desirable virtue, but that turned upsidedown, it's changed into plain cussed, bull-headedness. Two Bulls can be mutually docile, dependable, and sweetly compliant - if one doesn't push the other too far, or too hard. Most Bulls have a fantastic sense of humor, and if they can learn to laugh at themselves, their adjustment problems will be all over. A funny bone will get the Bull into moving or changing a fixed position. Humor is one of the greatest qualities a human being can possess. Along with Taurus dependability, it helps make these lovable and huggable men and women more reasonable, and a bit more flexible.
Taurus Woman - Taurus Man
A Taurus Man walks firmly, in a straight line, toward his goal, step-by-step, not leap-by-leap. He's perfectly content to reap the harvest of his well-deserved rewards in their own due season, and misfortune or bad luck barely disturbs his calm. He may carry a heavy load of responsibilities and bravely accepted, wearying duties his heart may be burdened nearly to breaking by the memory of past disappointments, but the Bull goes right on walking as if nothing ever happened. More often than not his steady and patient plodding is eventually rewarded with sweet success.
These two have much in common. She has a firm grip on her pocketbook, and he hangs on to his wallet with both fists. Since they're both lovers of Nature, they're fond of planting green things and watching them grow. (Like Mutual Funds and Christmas Clubs).
First thing you know they've fallen solidly in love. Next thing you know, they're getting married. Next thing you know, honeymoon is over and they've both started saying "I won't". About what varies. She wants children, he thinks its wiser to wait until they can afford them, so she has a couple babies, just to show him he can't push her around. She wants an expensive organ, he says no, we can't afford it. If she tries to coax, he still says No, a bit louder. So, she opens a charge account ( after careful calculation of her budget) and orders it anyway. Next day, he sends it right back, just to show her she can't push him around.
As for the periodic problems of communication between Taurus, the Bull knows exactly how to say "I'm sorry" and "I need you" in silent Taurus sign language, and his Taurus woman knows exactly how to interpret it. With these two a touch on the hand in a dark room can dispense with the necessity of speaking a single word.
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