Taurus - Gemini Relationship
Taurus people are quiet, steady, practical people, who try to mind their own business. On occasion they can be fierce, mostly they have an admirable calm. All their determination and staying power is no match for the flashing agility of a pair of Twins, who cleverly twist and turn their way out of any earthly threat- Twins, of course, being two different people disguised as one, who call themselves Gemini.
Feel sorry for the Taurus that are faced with these two fast-moving twinkle-toed people, with razor sharp minds, skipping around and confusing them, while giving the illusion that they are facing but a single person.
Often the dogmatic Taurus determination to stick with facts that have been tried and tested may seem like stubborn prejudice to the more liberal Gemini. The typical Bull feels it's always possible for an apparently accurate statement of brilliant Gemini logic to be a falsehood or deception behind the surface glibness. What gives Taurus their initial mistrust of Gemini is the Twins' amazing dexterity of speech. Anyone who can juggle words with such ease, and spin them onto such hypnotic tales full of wit and excitement, is suspect to the Bulls, who tend to make every word count in their own rare speeches.
Not all Gemini's are completely straightforward in their methods of arguing. Some veer away from the issue, on side trips, inciting Taurus to shout, "Stick to the point". Stop rationalizing. Gemini also leans toward a certain amount of diffusiveness and repetition in speech patterns, which sometimes causes Taurus friends, relatives, business associates, lovers or mates to get into the fixed habit of simply tuning out, after the third or forth repeat.
The Gemini airy detachment can hurt and annoy Taurus, to the Bulls, detachment is indicative of being either rudely ignored or condescendingly patronized neither of which is particularly pleasing to them.
Some Bulls carry the scars of real or imagined rejection for many years. It's often what causes those streaks of bull headed stubbornness. Gemini can't see how anyone could be so opinionated that they are deaf to all logic and reason. Yet an affectionate word or two, an arm around a shoulder, or a warm friendly clasp of hands, any touching, will make the tender Taurus heart melt. For all their cleverness Gemini frequently fail to comprehend this magic formula for softening the firm Taurus.
Gemini's are always looking for short cuts. Here's one. The most common cause of tension between you is the Taurus habit of feeling, when they should be thinking, and your habit of thinking, when you ought to feel. Don't try to dazzle the Bulls with your brilliance - baffle them with bear hugs.
Taurus Woman - Gemini Man
Taurus woman sits beneath the rose bush, carefully working on her needlework, Gemini man is drumming his restless fingers on the window pane, humming his lyric to "Song of the Open Road". A Taurus woman may be cautious about getting her feet tangled in romantic poison ivy. However, once this lady has fallen, she has fallen, and it takes a steel derrick, a Mack truck, a tractor to pull her out. Sometimes, the four-wheel drive of her common sense comes to the rescue, sometimes not.
Gemini's are equally as wary as Taurus about being trapped in the beginning, but even after the Twin has fallen in love, he keeps one light food in the bedroom and one poised on the front porch for ready flight, if necessary. He'll give one of his Twin hearts to have and to hold, but he hangs on to the other- just in case.
Taurus females have only three moods, sweet, affectionate contentment, sullen brooding - and raging fury. A Gemini man may wish she would vary them with a few impulsive whims, careless excitement, or a game of emotional hide-and-seek, now and then. She may hate change, but learning to adapt to new patterns is a necessity for a woman in love with a pair of Gemini Twins.
Taurus Man - Gemini Woman
The slow, smoldering passion of the Bull is not easily, nor quickly aroused. It grows in him, sneaking up on him gradually and gathering strength. After he's had his heart touched, he'll seldom, if ever, go back on his choices. His instinctive attitude toward involvement is total, and he'll follow it through to the bitter, or sweet, end through, rain, sleet, snow, yep, often through Gemini girl's unexpected hurricanes of anger or tornadoes of emotion. The moment a normally practical Bull gets caught in a romantic web, his common sense is buried beneath his newly discovered sense of touching, hearing, smelling, and seeing the girl of his quiet, but nevertheless deep, dreams. His promises of fidelity are kept.
Her social need to move around, and mix, in the company of both sexes, needn't destroy a relationship. She can be committed to one man, even though she needs the company of several dozen, on occasion. Try to get a possessive Bull to comprehend such a need. She can try, but she's taking a chance. It would be better if she explained it all to him before they marry, then all he can do is pull a slow burn and stalk off in anger.
Taurus's are sensual, erotically inclined, and deeply passionate lovers. Gemini approaches sex as just another exciting adventure into the magic fairyland of the imagination. All Bulls possess a rather basic, sometimes slightly crude, sense of humor about sex, but he may miss the joke when she keeps slipping away from intimacy into her own private world of fantasy. He wants to squeeze a real woman, not a misty nymph or an astral body. Compromise may well be required.
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