Aries - Libra Dating
Often you will hear a Libra person stating that something isn't fair. Libra's want everything fair, balanced all even. Nothing bothers a Libra more than being out of balance. Their symbol is the scale. Another disturbance is trying to make a decision. This can be agony. Interestingly the Aries agonizes equally, but more after a decision, where Libra struggles to make one.
No one can be more charming, intelligent, and optimistic than Librans who have a firm grip on their scales. They are great at getting groups together blending harmoniously and smoothing over tensions (when they are not personally involved).
One of the most noticeable differences between Aries and Libra who date, is that the simplest Aries statement somehow comes out sounding like a demand. Even asking a question, it often seems like they're telling you rather than asking you. On the other hand, there is always the other side of the coin with a Libra, when a Libra asks a question or makes a statement, they manage to charm you right out of your good sense.
A Libra can argue with an Aries for hours, and make it sound like the Aries was the one being impossibly rude and wrongheaded, in comparison to Libra's nice, sensible logic. How's that for unfair? No wonder Libra's make great Lawyers. Can you imagine what happens in a battle of wits between Libra and the impulsive, quick-tempered, emotional Ram. No contest.
Make no mistake about this - Libra does have a temper, not often let loose, but the storm that ensues can be compared to a tornado, and can rip up the landscape. Mostly Libra's don't like unpleasant confrontation, but will indulge if it restores peace. An argument between these two has two different objects. Libra wants to win to restore peace, Aries wants to win to prove their right, its an ego thing.
A relationship between these two Astrology Signs is a fortunate experience for both. Libra treats Aries with a freedom of thought and action that bolsters the confidence for Aries. There is gentleness, seldom tyranny or harsh words. Rather than forcing Aires into any particular pattern of behavior, Libra will more often recognize the Arien individuality and respect it.
Aries relationship to Libra finds their courage and intense drive intact, but soften into a more tolerant and balanced pattern. The Ram has to understand the Libra's real need to conserve his or her energy and not waste it unnecessarily, as Aries of often driven to do with their energy. It's Libra's way of maintaining physical and emotional poise - not laziness. In return the Aires gets a boatload of encouragement.
Aries Woman - Libra Man
In Astrology Aries and Libra are opposite signs. You have all heard that opposites attract. It would seem natural to think you have a dating home run. Libra charm is legendary, and practiced since infancy, when he smiles and flashes his dimples, he is aware of his blessings. The long line of women who line up behind him, will turn an Aries lady into a dragon lady, fire breathing and all. (Remember Aries is jealous). Libra sees this as irrational and it cramps his style. The longer he is in love with her, the less likely he'll leave. Besides, he needs someone to argue with him and challenge him, otherwise his mind gets rusty. Aries will fill this bill very nicely, she'll provide all the arguments he can use, and mental challenges to last a few lifetimes.
An Aries woman isn't basically selfish - just thoughtless. She never means to be rude or unkind, and certainly not toward the man she loves. She simply doesn't think or count to ten before she speaks her mind. Which is opinionated. Aries neglects to ask what anyone wants, they believe they know whats best for them, better than they do.
To win her you must not order or force her, it won't happen she won't accept harsh criticism in a docile manner. He can turn her into the lamb with affection and tenderness, use that Libra charm. This works 9 out of 10 times, so leave the one alone and count your blessings. Both like to win, each in their own way, so unless they find some middle ground, war it is.
Aries Man - Libra Woman
It usually isn't difficult for Libra women to get Aries men to open their heart to them, he's pretty much putty in her lovely, dimpled hands, as we know Aries is not putty in anyone's hands. For this woman he'll melt like ice cream in July. She will shower him with admiration, which he thinks everyone else denies him. This is in the beginning. Libra women are usually quite lovely, with wonderful smiles, and Aries men love having a woman who causes every other man to envy him. He loves the feeling that he's won the prize in the love carnival. (Aries has this thing about winning).
This relationship can have her feeling out of balance often, (later on). She doesn't like being forced into action before she's ready, and knows what she wants to do, Aries is impatient with her indecision and doesn't mind saying so. Good thing apologies come easy.
A relationship will not work when there's a constant battle who is the chief and who is the Indian. They'll have to ride side by side, as equals. The only security anyone has is the safety of being loved by someone who accepts you as you are, with all your flaws, and wouldn't trade you for anyone else. Someone who makes you know this even when you're behaving badly. That's safety. That's emotional security. That's home, where love is.
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