Taurus - Virgo Relationship
Virgo admires the Taurus strength of purpose, although they have little tolerance for the Bull's stubborness in the face of an obvious mistake. Taurus is somewhat in awe of the quick Virgo mind, though the Bulls have little sympathy for health nuts, clenliness bugs or the finer nauances of Virgo hair-splitting.
So, what are a few minor differences between dating friends? These two find many things to be friendly about, not the least of which is common sense. Virgos remember every flaw they have ever seen, from a torn shower curtain to a character defect in a date. The memories are painful, and they keep the Virgins eternally disillusioned, not to mention pessimestic about human nature. Taurus remembers everything they have seen also, but they don't want to remember. Remember, Taurus has a nagging voice inside that tells them wasting time is a sin.
A date for these two would never be fast paced, and it is a wonder for all to admire, that they even got the courage to get together in the first place. Once they manage to say hello to one another and actually make a date to meet, which both will be on time for, the relationship will flower slowly, surely and serenely.
Taurus usually wins over Virgo through patience, Virgo doesn't. While Virgins can appear to be tranquil, calm and patient on the surface, but their minds are constantly ticking away, and tocking them with inner frustrations when things don't happen as quickly as they think they should.
Taurus wins another way also, they tend to be more successful, in bigger ways. Virgo doesn't mind as they don't have a burning need to build a great empire. Virgo's urge is to serve the world and all the individuals in it, or on it, by pointing out their faults, bringing order out of chaos and anarchy, and accumulate some sense of security for the future.
Taurus wants to retire into seclusion as well, and usually have definite ideas of where it will be. The courtry sooner or later. Which is why they endure the confusion and frivolity of the cities, no matter how many years it takes, they don't want to count on Mother Nature for their livelyhood.
Taurus Woman - Virgo Man
It's almost impossible for a Tuarus woman to seduce a Virgo man. But she shouldn't allow herself to feel inrerior over this. It's almost impossilbe for any woman to seduce a Virgo man. This man can't bear the thought of any sort of self-surrender. It implies a lack of self-discipline. He's not interested in conquest either. Their natures, goals and desires are similar. They're both steady, sensible types, who would rather be caught doing almost anything than messing around with fantasy, flightiness or fickleness. She's soothing, and has a nice, quiet voice. He's gentle and has clear enunciation. They don't get on one anothers nerves.
What got him to call for a date, you ask. Comfort, a female who speaks and moves so sensuously and slowly seldom makes mistakes. You have to be a Virgo to get this, being comfortable with someone who's not always making mistakes and goofs you feel compelled to catch and correct. You know, compulsive criticism isn't much fun, it can be exhaustin
Niether gets angry often or easily. We know by now, when the Bull does, it's quite a blast, and can leave deep scars. Should Virgo work up a snit, is doesn't last long. Worry is another issue. Virgos don't air their issues. This is not a good thing, as they keep it bottled up. This does not bode well for the digestive system or the subconscious or the psyche. It's also the major cause of atrhritis and rheumatism.
He may not understand why she needs to be surrounded with so many luxuries, she may complain that his ideas of comfort are sparse, but neither will throw away money carelessly, so finances are seldom a bone of contention.
Taurus Man - Virgo Woman
Virgo girls turn up their noses at messes. Most are neat as pins. Her mind is well dusted, and sliced into precise thoughts - and there's likely no loose tobacco in the bottom of her purse.
One of the barriers between these two is that Bull man tends to be untidy. Some downright sloppy, and a few Bulls are just plain slobs. They love beauty and luxury around them, but they're too busy earning the bread to be bothered picking lint off their trousers, combing their hair, sweeping, hanging clothes, or polishing their shoes. Virgo girls moral attitide is intellectual, and her emotions are seldom involved. Virgos are as curious as they are critical. How can you correct a flaw if you haven't examined the plate? So she is often accused of a stuffy sort of marality she doesn't possess.
The Bull won't talk much about is ethics or morals. He feels what is right or wrong, then acts, with determination, and very little reflection on the intricacies of the issues. When their different methods of arriving at the truth lead them to the same conclusion, things are good. Should they take a detour, these lovers can bury each other in frozen silence and unbending stubbornness.
While Virgo girl may, mistakenly be thought of as a Miss Innocent, know she is not. Bull man is a coarse, erotic creature of lust, snorting in passion at all the cows in the pasture.
The Virgin and the Bull can spend their lives together drenched in the ecstasy of supposing all the small and ordinary wonders abound them. It's such a fiercely gorgeous, and natural, "high", if they don't dmother it by expecting too much. The eternal perfection she seeks is a mirage. The security he seeks - likewise. They're both looking for a sure thing. But the nearest they may ever come to a sure thing is each other.
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