Taurus - Libra Relationship
In no way, Bulls, is Libra passive. Libra may appear to be a pushover for a tougher personality. This charming person, this dimpled, beautiful or handsome creature, with bright intelligent eyes, a smile that warms the heart, the serentiy of spirit, a bland, innocent expression, a voice that sounds like church bells, ringing high in the Alps. Surely a person of such gentle persuasion couldn't be a threat.
That Libra smoothness of manner is a comouflage which enables the sharp spear of the Libra's mind to penetrate, with little resistance. Libra knows well that the immovable obstinacy of Taurus is nothing but obstacles to success. They're detrimental to the carrying out of one's real purpose- winning the controversy and getting one's own way, which is all that counts, to Libra.
Once a Taurus is pushed too far, he or she has not lack of courage. When it reaches push -to-pull, the Bulls of any age, and both sexes, will defend both their personal principles and their loved ones, fiercely. However, Taurus sees no sense in stirring up muddy waters or risking violent agitation, just to win a minor point. Libra does. Winning a point or decision, however minor, major - or in the middle. To a Libra, everything needs to be weighed and judged.
This explains why Libra's need to rest a lot, they get so weary from all that decision making and mental activity from morning to night. Most Bulls get wear and exhausted just listening to a LIbra comtemplating all those decisions. It sounds like insanity to them. Just do what you feel is right, and shut up about it. To the Bulls, constant argument is futile, wateful occupation they can imagine. No one ever wins an argument except the person who manages to fall asleep and snooze until it's over.
Did you know, every Libra, I mean every Libra, has dimples somewhere on their body.
In an argument or debate Libras use what is known as "Socratic method" of discussion. You have to watch them closely, listen carefully. A Taurus is too busy resisting to pay attention and may trip on their own obstinacy.
Taurus Woman - Libra Man
It's possible Mr Libra will find he's made the right deciion by not making a decision to charm his way out of the Taurus girl's feminine, appealing wiles. They'll probably be as happy as tow turtledoves, as they walk, hand in hand, from room to room, through their rose-covered cottage in the country, or if their dreams have been delayed, through their soot-covered apratment in the city.
There's hardly a square foot of space, in or around their home, where they'll disagree. Except the front porch. That's where she may sit and wait - and wait - and wait - for him to come home, on those nights he's gone to the gym to work out - and go out on the town afterwords with his friends, and maybe the basement.
The basement is where she'll spend time helping him keep up his reputation as a handsome Libra charmer. It requires stacks of clean shirts and socks. They must be folded just so, and put away, just so. He gets nervous when his socks don't match.
Libra men sometimes behave as though they're trying to drain Life of every ounce of knowledge and every drop of pleasure, reading best sellers, rapping with intellectuals, catching films, plays, and concerts, admiration of pretty girls at parties.
A Taurus woman prefers to stay home, and cuddle by the fire, maybe go out once a week. She can't make jogging a way of life. She needs other interests, and most of them lie in togetherness, the two of them, hiking, camping, remodeling the house, making common sense out of the present so they can build a future, buy a house in the country, and leave the metropolis. She was not born for condominiums. She was born for barns, hay and fresh air, country roads to stroll on, with the man she loves.
Not all Libra men are playboys, then again many are, either way he'll insist on keeping his intellect sharp, and one of the ways he does is by being gregarious. If she wants to continue playing happy scenes with him, she'll have to accept the mingling at intermission. Wherever and however he does his mingling, she should get out of the basement and off the front porch, into her prettiest dress, and tag along beside him, without pouting.
Taurus Man - Libra Woman
A Libra woman is unpredictable. You never know how she's going to manage to get her own way. All you can be sure of is that she'll get it. Gee, a sweet, feminine girl like her, bossy! Yes, but she won't advertise it.
A Libra girl is nearly always beautiful. Even if her features are plain, her stunning smile makes you think she's beautiful. She had dimples, her eyes are soft, her voice is clear and lovely, her manners are graceful. Outwardly, she's an angel of femininity. Inwardly, she's driven by force, strength, courage, positive action, penetrate, dominate and conquer. She can manage her own career, and she's adept at getting everything she wants out of life - or from a man. Doesn't mean she's invulnerable to hurt, but she wears a tougher suit of armour to protect her, than her manner might suggest, and she recuperates quickly.
Taurus recuperates slowly from a broken heart. All the more reason for him to be sure he knows the rules before he plays any romantic games with a Libra girl. He makes decisions slowly, after careful thought, he doesn't like to discuss until it's settled in his mind, and he seldom changes his opinion. She acts with equal deliberation and seldom changes her mind, and once she's made up her mind she acts quickly. She gets her unfair reputation of being undecisive because of the time it takes for her to deliberate and make up her mind.
Taurus deliberates in silence, Libra needs lengthly discussions fo pro and con that can last far into the night, and may resent his lack of enthusiasm.
Bull man can sooth her restless spirit, and guide her through her moments of indicision. His warmness and humor, reliability and common sense are often just the qualities she's been searching for. Another thing about these two is that her optimism can act as a beautiful balance for the Bull's natural tendency toward pessimism. No one can cheer Bull boy as evvortlessly as this charming lady. He may balk if she tries to drag him into her social whirl. But he'll be lovable when she plies her wide smile and coaxes him with her maple-sugar voice. He privately admires her intelligence, as long as she acknowledges the fact of masculine superiority. It's a rare Bull who truly believes, in his heart, that men and women are equal in all ways. Bull boy will be proud of the way his Libra lady manages things so smoothly. The trick is to keep him from discovering that her real talent lies in managing him. Shhhhhhhhhh.
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