Taurus - Sagittarius Relationship
In no way will a Bull change their slow, steady pace, so it's up to Sagittarius to stop running for a spell, now and then, if these two are ever going to settle down, and cash in on several possible rewards of the relationship.
Sagittarius is symbolized by the Archer and Centaur, half-horse, half-man. Nearly every Archer dreams of making some sort of career out of travel, and one way or another most of them manage to do just that. When Sagittarius is playing the clown, or philosopher, using the animal, or the rear end of their Centaur symbol,(you will find them mooning a lot), the Bulls find them highly amusing. They feel a warm, protective glow toward the cheerful, well meaning, good natured and somewhat awkward horse-half of Sag. (Rhyme that with badge).
Let the human side of the Archers turn up and Taurus is puzzled and annoyed. As the Bulls watch the Sag playing the roles of serious idealists, fighting fiercely in the coutroom, the classroom , on a television screen, or on a platform, they're uncertain whether to cheer them - or fear them.
Every Sag, including the extroverted and the introverted ones, is at heart a bright-eyed, bushy tailed optimist, who inwardly beleives that everything will come out in the wash, then cries dramatic tears when it doesn't - serves them right for expecting too much out of life, as far as Taurus is concerned.
Bulls are clear-eyed, smooth-tailed pessimists, who never expect anything to come out in the wash - so when they lose a couple socks at the laundermat, it serves them right for imaging negative possibilities, as far as Sag is concerned. Sag has little patience for Bulls who go around spreading inky moods.
Sag people sail around, goofing and stumbling a lot, but they're as likely to stumble on a piece of pure, unadulterated luck, as they are to fall head first into an open sewer. The former accident is due to their marvelous faith, courage and optimism- the latter, to their obstructed line of vision. Your chances of falling into a hole increase when you're gazing at the sky, shooting arrows into the futute, and not looking where you're going.
Since Bulls keep their eyes more or less fastened on the ground, they can help Sag watch out for open sewers and other traps. These two can make a dynamite team in the stock market, or in any sort of gambling venture.
Normally, Bulls remain close to family ties, sacrificing much for their loved ones, and bear a bushel of trouble for them. Sag is also willing to offer a helping hand and a cheery word to their relatives - from a distance. The typical Archer and their families don't live in one another's pockets. Sag is more interested in the good of humanity as a whole than in lavishing excessive attention on blood lines.
Both of these Astrology Signs can spot a hypocrite or a phony a mile away, and neither of them is inclined to tell a lie to save face, or merely to be courteous. Bulls state the truth of the matter as they see it, firmly and clearly. If they think it may hurt someone, they'll clam up and not speak at all, rather than stir up unpleasantness. Sag on the other hand has a brutal kind of honesty. Truth sometimes hurts, but the Archers are blissfully unaware of this, when their indignations are flashing. Its useless to expecht these people to stifle their integrity, but they might try diluting it a bit. The game of, "dose of their own medicine" never works. They accept truth cheerfully, and are bewildered when others get uptight over hearing plain facts.
Sag takes life and people literally as they skip around, spreading their jollies and blasting out truth with their jovial vibes. Bulls are normally placid, patient souls, unless they get hit between the eyes. Unfortunately, the qualities of placidity and patience often annoy the more umpulsive Archers, when they're exposed to it for long periods. It may seem to Sag that the dogmatic and cautious Bulls are as slow as a herd of snails.
If these two decide to take a gamble, and combine Sag luck and logic, with Bull shrewdness and common sense, they stand a good chance of making lots of money together. M-O-N-E-Y. That message will reach them both loud and clear. Taurus likes to keep it in the bank. Sag likes to keep it in circulation.
Taurus Woman - Sagittarius Man
For a man who prides himself on his honesty, a Sag male can be pretty shifty about romance. He may think he'll always win the game of "Love now, leave later," if he is dating a Taurus, he'd best prepare to lose - either the game or her.
Bull girl falls in love with a Sag man for perfectly good reasons. He's an idealist, a cheerful companion when she's blue, intelligent conversationalist, a dreamer, a philosopher, astute businessman, and a little boy who needs looking after. Bull girl can't resist a man like that.
The very least a Bull girl will settle for when she's in love is the status of permanent mistress or common law wife, though she won't like either situation, and she's only biding her time in any case. What she won't stand for is being part of an Archer's harem. She isn't illogically jealous, she is, however, possessive, which means that her idea of love is based on exclusivity. Lady Bull won't be suspicious of her man without good cause, but neither will she give him yards of rope to string her along.
She's a warm and sensuous woman, yet it isn't easy for her to express the emotions she feels so strongly. She can only show her love through the sense of touch. To her that should be enough, and silence is golden when she's making love. But, Sag idealist wants to analyze, then express, both physically and verbally, the miracle of fulfillment. He may feel he's caressing the Sphinx, and she could decide she's being loved by the actual Centaur, half blazing with animan passion and half abstracted in thoughts which are beyond the horizon of reality.
The Sag is mental activity, needs companionship with men and women of every walk of life. He's defiant of public opinion, uncompromising in his honesty, indifferent toward domestic life, and detached from his own parental family ties.
Bull girl is the exact opposite. She wants a warm, quiet, cozy atmosphere, including family. The Archer will be impatient with Bull girl's lack of enthusiastic reaction to his spontaneity, while she is driven to fury by his scattered dreams, procrastination and throughtlessness. This is a man who whilstls before breakfast, and this is a woman who is positive the means he'll cry before supper. They translate Mother Goose somewhat differently.
Only if she's willing to thaw her frozen silences when he needs her understanding - and only if he's willing to curb his firery temper when he can't get his own way, can they find happiness.
Taurus Man - Sagittarius Woman
Sagittarius is just as firery and self-righteous when they're well informed as they are when they don't know what they're talking about. Chances are she will have a degree or two, and speak a couple languages. Either way, she'll find tons of topical and tangled issues of the day to analyze with her cool logic and brutal honesty. Then she'll attempt to straighten them out with her optimism. Makes breakfast with the morning paper a lively meal. Her discussions make up for burned toast and un-sectioned grapefruit, a degree in cooking she probably does not have.
Archer girl's high spirits help her snap back from most misfortunes like a rubber band. She looks on the bright side of things, and her sunny disposition makes the Bull Boy smile indulgently at the idealism and naivete behind it. She doesn't recover as quickly from a broken heart as she does from smashed ambitions, fractured dream, or a period of poverty. Unrequited love, meaning love she gives freely to a man who abuses her trust, gets her down, and sometimes keeps her there. The gentle understanding of a patient Bull could heal her emotional scars and, at the same time, teach her that not all men are fickle phonies who break promises.
She's fond of arugment, enjoys crossing swords with a good antagonist. Her swift flashes of logic give her a sharp insight, and she's a skillful debater, and painfully honest. Trouble is, Taurus is not fond of arugment and debate, or even an overly long friendly discussion. She may then, invite packs of assorted friends over to camp out, hang around, and keep her wits sharpened. That will only make things worse. Mr Bull does not like his castle cluttered with noisy strangers, and it will take a good deal of emotional elasticity to ease the tight tensions.
The subjects on the double bill of many of their comic-tradedies will be his stubborness, and her extravagance. As for how long the quarrels last, it will depends on her awareness of his nature. She'll forget her own anger quickly. He can pout for days unless she knows the secret to his heart. With Bull boy, one hard squeeze, and one gentle kiss, will tear down all his obstinate defenses.
Archer girl is quick to reach out for love, if the hand she grabs and hods tightly offers friendship. She's impulsive, excited by mental qualities, and loyal, once she becomes sincerely attached. So is he. But he won't eat egg fu yung in a resturant forever. Bull boy thinks a woman's place is in the home, with strong emphasis on the kitchen and the bedroom. If that's where she's happiest, and willing to spend a reasonable amount of time with him, their relationship will be lasting.
If she calls him Buttercup, not in front of others, he'll call her Honeycakes, if she tickles his ear and scratches his head, he'll grow ecstatic, docile and sweetly manageable. If he stops telling her to shut up, and tries a little harder to understand her honesty, to take a genuine interest in her opinions and excitement, she might blunt her arrows a little, and maybe even cook some egg fu yung herself, at home, where she belongs.
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