Taurus and Aquarius Relationship
Genius and Insanity! Every Aquarian who ever walked the earth is the first, while also being harrassed, by the second, or accused of it. Aquarian's are well aware the possess this half-and-half nature, and are untroubled by it, admitting their quirks. Another Astrologer's (Carroll Righter) mother called him "an odd duckling"--"Well, quack quack."
Aquarians live in alternate dimensions, yesterday, today, tomorrow, generally all three at once, and have the ability to manage quite well. They gather wisdom and truth from the deep wells of tomorrow. That's sort of, where it's at, with Aquarius, It being their consciousness, and at, being the triple dimension of Time and Space they visit.
As for the Bulls position in time and space, they exist in the here and now. One dimension is more than satisfying. As far as the Bulls are concerned, there are enough problems in the here and now to solve, without looking in some other dimension. However, Bulls often mumble, like Aquarians, in unintellgible, monosyllables, at times, like, Yep - Nope - Un-Huh - Huh-uh, and Grmmmmmmmmphf. In this respect there's a faint similarity between them. Both have a fixity of purpose, you might call it obstinacy. Outside these similarities, these two are as far apart as two human beings can be, and still recognize one another as being from the same planet. Taurus wants the status quo, Aquarius wants to change it.
Being neither is inclined to tell all they know at an initial meeting, these things take time. The Bulls have to determine whether it's worth going further. Aquarius tends to have a word scrambling device that makes their conversation sound like a tape being played backwards, often with blank spots. You may hear the Bull saying,
"Grummmmmph", refusing to cope. The idea is that Taurus and Aquarius will comminicate with one another exactly in the same manner they communicate with the rest of us - in their own time, and in their own way.
Compatibility and comprehension between these two is achieved only with effort, and is rewarded with a good feeling of having accomplished something worth-while when it is finally achieved. Assuming they have broken the ice with "Grrrrrmmph" and "Howdy." how do they break down the bashful berriers of Taurus, and the detachment of Aquarius. Bull's have more reserve of manner than Aquarius. Even timid Aquarian's count everyone as friend, from the mailperson to the president, they don't know the difference. It's all they can do to to keep themselves straight on the difference between girls and boys, top and bottom, up and down, black and white, cold and hot, and all that. Typical Aquarias is not predjudiced in their choice of friends, they use the term to describe, lovers, husbands, wives, cats, dogs. squirrels, children, neighbors, dolphins etc. Aquarian's are no more partial to frends than they are selective of them, so no one ever becomes Aquarius's "best friend."
Takes a Bull several years to make a friend, it takes Aquarius five seconds. Taurus is suspect of friendships that occur that quickly.
Taurus Woman - Aquarius Man
Very little comes as a surprise to an Aquarian man, considering his intuitive nature. He may not be prepared for what happens when dating a Bull Girl awhile. Here he is, a man with a firm set of ethics, they may be peculiar, but they are his, and they are firm. He has a great feel for humanity, interested in everybody, no prejudices against the female sex, the male sex, or people of any other sex. Yet, look at the hurt he's caused her, all unaware. How, they had so much fun at the Zoo, he was just trying to be her friend, pal.
Bull Girl was formed for romance. His mistake was at the beginning, when he was concentrating his attention on her, asking shocking questions of an intimate sort, giving sympathy when she cried, he should have made a special effort to notice, she's a woman. She noticed he was a man right away, to her the math is easy, one male plus one female equals ecstasy-on several levels, not the least of which is touching.
Aquarius men, touching means kissing, hugging, holding hands, and all sorts of things, you know contact. Human contact is an Aquarian fear. Not really the touching, but what it leads to, two becoming one. Aquarius feel safer when two remain two. That way he knows where he stands. Alone. Free of obligations, and in no danger of losing his individuality. If you're going to go around touching people, especially gril-type people, who knows what you're letting yourself in for? Especially if she forgets to bring her own towel when they go swimming.
A word of warning. The pet mouse he may use as a peace offering, after a quarrel, might make that a gerbil. Bull people are closely related, not to just bulls and cows, but also to the elephant. You know what elephants do when they see a mouse. Bull Girl will do the same thing, scream or trumpet, toss her trunk in the air wildly, in fright, and leap across the room - into his arms. Ohhhhh, that's why he brought the mouse! Never underestimate the canny caluclations of an Aquarion male. He always knows exactly what he's doing, however daffey he may appear while he's doing it.
These two are different, she's a gril, he's a boy. She'd like him to treat her as a woman, he'd like to be treated like a man. She likes thick carpets and plush, plump furniture. He'd just as soon sack out in a tent. She's tuned into peace and quiet - which he calls boredom. He's tuned in to excitement and controversy - which she calls bedlam. She may eventually lose her normally well controlled temper and patience, and tell him to go get someone else to pull the splinters out of his toes. Still if he can teach her to fly a little, and she can teach him how to get it together, who knows? "If is a little word, with a big meaning, but "love" is a four letter word, with infinite power.
Taurus Man - Aquarius Woman
Since she's as much of an individualist about romance as she is about everything else, this lady makes up her own rules about love as she goes along. Whatever they may be, whether puritanical or permissive by other people's standards, she's true to them, and to herself. It's this quality of self-honesty and integity that attracts the Bull to the girl Water Bearer lilke a magnet, and causes him suprisingly often to tolerate her romantic rules, even when they rub against his grain and grit. He sees her as one of the few honest people left in the world. One of the few ethical, reliable, dependable, best wait a minute here. Bull Boy if you start expecting this woman to be reliable and dependable, you're inviting trouble.
We know the Bull's temper is slow to show, not Aquarius, it is rather sudden and may not always refer to the current event, remember they live in yesterday, today and tomorrow all at the same time. With Water Girl, she may blow off at something, then come home later with a gift.
They both save things, Bulls like saving old memories, in the form of junk, although he'll claim bashfully and stubbornly, they have some sensible use. They don't, but she should let him think they do. Okay, they are both good organizers, and they tend to accumulate. When it comes to the quality of dependability, Aquarius jumps off the boat. She'll try to keep a promise, and try to be on time for appointments. She'll seldom retract anything she's said, if she felt it deeply when she said it, and this is all admirable. Her nature won't allow it.
She is full of eccentricities, surprises, unexpected.
Bull Boy is most conventional, predictable, even his enemies would not call him eccentric. Conformist at heart, he is thrown by the Aquarian Age, especially by women who think their equal to men. Along she comes with her strange clothes, wild hair, odd statements, and sympathy for all sorts and not the least alarmed about what is going on. She's not alarmed because the Aquarian Age is her age, she knows there's no need to conform to anything, unless you want to. She's always done what she wanted to, to live and let live. Bull Boy gets that, as long as he can grumble some, when things don't suit him.
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