Taurus - Cancer Relationship
More than likely these two Astrology Sign people will never do much casual dating, they both like being settled.
Cancer love their mothers, their homes, money, babies and food. Taurus loves money, their homes and mothers, food and babies. You can see how much they are alike, except for a few minor changes in the order of priorities.
Both want people to be nice to them. In fact they need people to be nice to them. The nicest thing Cancer can do for Taurus is to cook up a big dinner, then sit around talking about how to make more money. The nicest thing Taurus can do for Cancer is to buy an almanac to keep track of the phases of the Moon, this way the Bull can be on track with Cancer's changing moods.
Cancer is serious most of the time, and cautious. They also have periods of black melancholy. Then they turn funny and their humor has everyone laughing. Sometimes Cancer people are silent and timid, other times they talk your ear off. As you might note they are moody. Being they are ruled by the Moon, you might say moony. You might not know for sure who will show up for your date, unless you are aware of the moon phases.
Just because they have so much in common, doesn't mean Taurus understands Cancer moods. To the Bull it's a waste of time and common sense to weep and moan about a situation. Taurus seldom weeps or moans, and they are rarely moody. However, once a Taurus digs in their heels, and get set for a spell of the blues, rare as it is, they're not kidding around. When a Bull has a mood, you'd best know it's a good, strong one, and it's going to last awhile, without interrupted by silly fits of giggles.
Cancer moods usually don't last more than a few hours, a few days at the very most, and cover a variety of emotions, humor to criticism, from intelligent, interesting conversation to shyness. They switch from laughter to tears, from faith to cynicism, from bitterness to joy, and then snap at you, "What do you mean , I'm moody? You're the one who's hard to get along with."
Because Cancers are so sensitive, they're aware of what's going on what's going on inside of people, therefore they are usually compassionate. This sympathy comes and goes, especially if they are looking for sympathy themselves, which is often, and in particular if they are looking for a loan of money.
It is interesting, that both signs are generous with their elders and children, but everyone in between they're tough on. This might suggest a dutch date situation, or some dating problems and misunderstandings. Lets see, who picks up the check. You may start the date with a happy -go lucky Cancer and end up mopping up tears.
The reason they are slow to spend their money, is they are thinking about the future. There's always a rainy day. There are Universal Laws constantly working. If you want a rainy day, you'll get one. If you want love , happiness and security, you'll get that too. I say concentrate on the latter.
Here is a great dating idea for these two. Go to dinner, be it a casual date place, or a more formal dining.
Both love to eat, and cook, controlled diets are difficult. As for drinking Cancer is more likely than Taurus, but its more now and then . Should Taurus be tempted to indulge too often, there could be trouble. The Bull hates excess, and rarely messes with it, should they slip, they do so like they do everything else, grand scale.
Disagreements are not loud, both react to hurt or aggravation by slinking off to brood. Doesn't make the misunderstanding easier, but it does keep things quiet. I should remind you about the rare and horrifying times every ten years or so, when Bulls find themselves in a china shop and someone waves a red flag.
These two also do very well in any business venture. Taurus builds, Cancer runs.
Taurus Woman - Cancer Man
The Cancer man secretly wants his woman to baby him. Taurus woman loves to spoil her man. Is this love at first sight? Not quite.
Cancer doesn't rush into anything, including love. Rushing is not in the Cancer nature, it's impossible for the Crab to advance in a straight line. Have you ever noticed that all Cancers have a side -waddle. Taurus girl isn't the type to leap overboard into a sea of passion singing songs of love. She wants to be wooed, and this means really wooed. Love between these two takes time, lots of it, months or years, not days or weeks.
Once she commits, she knows how to keep her man happy, he is a lover to end all lovers, particularly in persistency.
Two people who love can't avoid hurting each other can't avoid hurting each other occasionally, but with the Bull and Crab, hurt can last longer than most. They'll have to realize this is an unnecessary waste of time, and emotional strain, since the hurt is unintentional.
Taurus Man - Cancer Woman
We know Taurus is a slow starter in love. Though he has an enormous capacity for live, it doesn't burst into verbal or physical commitment overnight. Once it does, its permanent. This is what Cancer girl needs and wants. Like her, he won't give his complete self until the right woman arrives.
Most Taurus men, not all, don't experience love in its total sexual and emotional fullness until they're out of their teens, or even years later, never forget the Bull is capable of making up for lost time, and the depth and intensity of his love is well worth waiting for.
The Bull is possessive, not jealous, and his approach to love is solid, sensible and practical, seldom emotionally erratic, capricious or unduly enthusiastic, but cozy. The two of them may be alike in may ways, this is one where they differ. Moon girl can allow unfounded jealousy to torture her into moods of deep depression, or worse, a suspicious, bitter or clinging attitude that can infuriate a Bull.
The Taurus man will lavish enough affection on the Cancer woman, to banish the fears she's accumulated since childhood that nobody really wants or needs her because most people are more capable than she. He does. He wants her, and he needs her, and he'll show it in unmistakable ways, if she'll let him.
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