Gemini - Scorpio Relationship
Most people don't know they're dealing with a multiple when they associate with a Gemini, Scorpio duspects the truth right away. Scorpio suspects everything right away. It's difficult, if not impossible to fool a Scorpion for long. The suspicious nature of these people prods them to penetrate mysteries like Sherlock Holmes, but they seldon discuss their conclusions with anyone. What Scorpio knows, Scorpio keeps to themselves. Knowledge is power, who give it away? This brings us to an obvious tendency of, not all, but most Geminis, talking. Sometimes even gossiping. At the very best, they usually don't count to ten before speaking, a habit which can upset the more reserved Scorpios, even though Gemini words are often lovely bubbles of light and joy.
Not that Scorpios can't be loquacious too, at times. They can be, but most Scorps would rather be seen than heard, and preferably not seen if they can possibly help it. Those unusual Scorps who chatter have a knack for talking about everything except what is really important. They seldom discuss anything truly personal, about themselves that is. Anything about someone else they will gladly discuss, unless they've promised to keep it a secret. It's a rare Scorpio who breaks a promise. Keeping a promise is a point of honor. The child-like innocence of the Gemini may annoy Scorpio, Scorp is a lot of things, but "innocence is not the word an Astrologer would choose to describe this Sign.
Scorpio has what can only be called a dominating disposition, ranging all the way from brooding sulkiness to cool withdrawal when things don't go their way. At other times Scorpio can be gentle, sensitive, sompassionate and fanatically loyal, but never truly warm. Gemini is likewise often accused of lack of warmth, as for loyalty, Gemini, as we all know by now, is not famous for loyalty, if the true meaning of the word is unswerving devotion to one person, one idea or one ideal for a lifetime. Gemini does like to swerve! The Twins have difficulty remaining interested in one topic for a full day without swerving into a different direction, let alone for a entire life-span. Without periodic variety and changing scenery, the average Twin would sofficate from sheer boredom.
Gemini Woman - Scorpio Man
We should start out by admitting there are some relationships composed of a mixture that succeeds, some Gemini's and Scorpio's who easily manage to find a lasting love, built together on a firm foundation of mutual respect. Not a lot, but there are some.
"Forever", is a word that frightens a Gemini as much as the word "temporary" frightens the Scorpio. It isn't that she is unable to remain in live, and true to one man, because many Gemini girls do, but such faithfulness and permanency must creep up on her subtly, gradually, one tiptoe at a time, until she's totally involved in the relationship without realizing it. Using forever too soon, or predicting the outcome of the romance when she'd rather guess, spoils the excitement. The Scorp man can cope with temporary arrangements as well as the next make, but the use of the word itself creates instant doubt and suspicion in his mind, spoiling his sense of power and dominance over the affair.
He'll be initially captivated by her undeniable charm, the bubbles of her voice, her bright mind, her deft conversation and her light touch in every situation. He's a man, regardless of his masked and caped Batman image, and just as susceptible to the attractions of Eve's apple as any other astrological sign. Then, after a while, he'll begin to notice that some of her stories have changed ever-so-slightly the second time around. Gemini's add a little here, take away a little there, for more sparkle, doesn't everyone?
At this point Mr. Scopr will step back and look again at this woman who almost stole his heart, and may decide to think about it a little longer. Once he has given his word it pains his soul to break it, so he may slow things up until he's sure she has no surprises to spring on him, like marriages and separations or divorces she forgot to mention.
May be she will hardly note the slight change in his attitide. She's too busy wondering how long she can stand his stifling scrutiny of her personal life, prying into her secrets, nothing bad or especially shocking, but things she'd like to keep private, and his jealousy.
He may feel she's trying to tear him from his own soul, as a tornado uproots trees. Even so, if Gemini chooses, she's intelligent enough to figure a way to make the relationship work, and Scorpio is intuitive enough to know how to seal each break so it's stronger afterwards. If they each desire to do so. Desire is the key word.
Gemini Man - Scorpio Woman
A Gemini man possesses the unusual and uncommonly appealing quality of seeming to remain eternally youthful, not rare, for one who is reborn each day, but rare enough to attract the normally self-contained and cautious Scorpio female into wondering what makes him scintillate with such multiple colors of the mood spectrum. When a Scorpio girl starts to wonder, there's no stopping her until she''s satisfied her wondering with complete knowing. That means coming closer to him, and closer, until she suddenly looks around herself in alarm. She's standing between two people different as day from night. This man is a maze of contradictions, denials and affirmations.
Gemini finds all forms of jealousy difficult to fathom. He is, of course, duly susceptible to the normal, small tugs of fear regarding the damger of losing his woman to another, like any average male, but the kind of overwhelming sea storms thundered by a Scorpio woman who feels threatened are incomprehensible to him. When this woman has been hurt, or even suspects she might be hurt, her Scorpio stinger can strike a deadly blow to the ego of the Gemini man who is innocent of the accusations made against him, or guilty as charged, either way. Most Scorpios find revenge sweet indeed. Therefore, if she is deceived, or suspects she's been, the retaliation will be swift and cruel, even vindictive, depending on some aspects of her birth planets. Other than an Aries female, no one can be as jealous as a Scorpio, but Aries has not the same compulsion to get even.
He may tend to criticize and analyze her, since she's so full of silent intrigue, certainly not shallow. Yet, in doing so, he may be floating in deeper waters than he suspects. Scorpio doesn't take kindly to analysis, and the insistent questioning of the curious Gemini can cause her to retreat in sullen anger, or lash our with a violent emotional response. Privacy is as sacred to her as to him. They need to realize this and not insist upon exploring the things they find puzzling about each other until the resentment grows into a high thick wall.
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