Gemini - Sagittarius Relationship
There are two types of Archers: those who take after the front end or human half of the Centaur, and those who take after the rear end or equestrian half. You may have met both types. I have.
I'm sure you all know by now, Gemini is also a double sign, dual in personality, multiple in word and action. I'll bet you don't know the task involved insorting out all these identities for the purpose of describing one complex relationship between just two people? The math alone is discouraging.
The Sagittarius friend or neighbor you have, think about that person, they may have a gift for zinging out tactless verbal arrows of truth, yet is the kind of Sag who acts like Bashful, Seven Dwarfs) at a party. Please note, a shy Sag is rare.
With double signs, you always face the problem of dual personality traits, extroverts vs introverts. With Gemini, they have no traits in common whatsoever, except the fact that each one of them is a double-mirror image, has two or more dispositions and personalities, which they can cange as naturally and as quickly as you or I can change from swim suits to sweaters when the wind can't make up its mind.
These two signs do well most of the time, Gemini can incite Sag into action, both negative and positive, that they would not have taken before. Gemini needs the Archer's high motivation, ideals, warmth, enthusiasm, and sincerity, also Sag's ability to travel over more terrain mentally, emotionally, geographically. Sagittarius longs for the cool poise and charm of Gemini, the talent for keeping the foot out of the mouth, for remaining cool and detached in the face of most disturbing situations, and especially needs the Gemini verbal adroitness, called tact.
When they get together, they have two choices. Each can admire the opposite traits of the other, and try to imitate them, in order to grow and mature. Or each can fear and envy the opposite qualities of the other, and try to put them down, robbing each other of all pride in doing their own thing.
By the way, Sag sounds like badge.
Most Geminis are far too intelligent and too fond of their freedom to risk apprehension and confinement by breaking the law, but those wo do, flirt with antisocial activities lea toward the light-fingered crimes, such as twirling combination locks, forgery and counterfeiting. Seldom will a Gemini be guilty of homicide, they prefer to mastermind the crome and delegate the authority for the action to others. Violence offends the sensitivity of the typical Gemini.
The Archers are not always so persuasive as Gemini, and frequently find themselves in hot water when they blurt out uncomfortable truths. Not that Sagittariaus isn't charming. They loose it when they begin to fling a string of stinging words with very little subtlety or tact. Blunt is the word for Sag, and bluntness doesn't win ball games. It is not sarcasm. Sagittarius sharp speech hurts only because of the ring of reality most people don't want to hear. Sarcasm requires a certain kind of twisting of the truth to make the truth clearer than Sag is normally capable of either handling or comprehending. Even the introverted Twins and Archers are seldom silent when they are together.
Gemini Woman - Sagittarius Man
In many ways, the Archer is a remarkable man. He has extraordinary vision and warmth, he is thoughtful and he is fluent. The alert Twin girl, who simply must be intellectuallly fascinated to be able to fall in love finds this a special experience. He'll always be frank with her, he'll tell her some of his accomplishments and dreams. If he doesn't quite answer all her requirements for a lover or husband, well, it's only fair to point out no man ever does, or ever will.
As with all complex personalities, the Sag man will grow to know Gemini girl slowly. She withholds various fragments of her multiple nature, allowing him to peek at but one at a time. When he first meets her, she'll definitely withhold. She'll project only one Twin, the one capable of charming him, naturally. Twin girl as quite capable of getting what she wants, trouble with this is that she is never sure of what she wants.
His two sides manifest in varying moods, his likes and dislikes are very pronounced and he's susceptible to tension or disharmony in his invironment, especially in his love relationship. This means he can be a little edgy, easily set off by Gemini duality into a firey Sag explosion. So it's no wonder she may prefer to keep some things back, and allow herself to be called deceptive, rather than risk walking the plank of his disapproval. When archers express their disapproval, it can be brutal and to the point, hurtful in the extreme. Should this sort of thing be repeated often, it can trigger her into sharpening her Gemini sarcasm, causing the love nest to shake a bit, with the Archer becoming mentally confised, and, in return, slashing some deep wounds in her fragile emotions.
Gemini Man - Sagittarius Woman
With Archer girl, Twin boy can't play on-again, off again romance, ranging from cruel iciness to detached boredom, frequently outright deception, mingled with beautiful romance. This can make Archer girl unsure of herself as a female or even as a human being. He may try his pseudo-psychoanalysis, nothing wrong with him, its her. He may get away with it a few times, until she catches on to his trickery. Twin boys can do outrageous deeds, the expect their woman who loves him to apologize to him as if she did the deed. No wonder their good salesmen.
So, we have an attraction, they share eternal youthfulness of spirit, inquisitive minds. responsiveness to Nature and a mutual need for freedom, for space between them, so they can move toward their goals. Both like to dream alone awhile, then return to each other's arms for encouragement. But alone is not the same as lonely. Both Gemini and Sag seek the gregarious life, surrounding themselves with people, because they have a secret fear of loneliness.
An interesting sidebar with these two, Twin boy may occasionally incite a quarrel for the purpose of increasing emotion or desire in her. Anger has a strange way of exciting passion between these two. Then the argument is resolved by poysical union, or should be. He's capable of bringing it up for discussion again after their closeness, when it should have been buried and forgotten. To be fair, she tends to do the same thing. They should both learn to bury disagreements after intimacy. Why use sex as a weapon against each other? Jealsousy is the cause of many of their disptes, with good reason. Neither is noted for impeccable faithfulness. Both are too curiou, too changeable, too moody, and desirious of variety to be snowflake-pure-loyal.
They both are moody, if they can manage to stay up while the other is down, they can pull each other through the scary times. He'll have to curb his tendency to sarcasm when he's annoyed, and she'll have to curb her tendency to tactless remarks, when what he needs is her tenderness and understanding. Her blunt turth almost always hurts. So does his sarcasm. Archer girl has not conception of the word. He might exagerate thus, "Of course I don't object to a three-hundred dollar pone bill, darling. It makes me feel important to pay the telephone company all that money, even if it does mean we have to cancel our vacaion." Sarcasm. She'll be both hurt and puzzled. Why doesn't he just say straight out that he's angry about the phone bill, and disappointed that it might mean no vacation. Then she could say sorry, and work overtime to make up the difference. As it is, she won't say she's sorry, so there! Gemini is incapable of saying exactly what he means.
The only thing more stinging than the Twin boy's sharp sarcasm is the Archer girls blunt honesty. When ill mated these two can verbally slice each other's hearts to ribbons. There is a lighter side to their relationship. There's always another side, when two double signs get together. They will at least respect one another's intellect, and find their mutual moods more fascinating than the boring sameness of others.
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