Gemini - Libra Relationship


Since Libra's can never make up their minds, and Gemini's are continually changing theirs, it's hard to know what to predict will happen in a relationship between these two, whether relatives, husband-wife, friends, business partners, lovers, mates or what ever.  Anything I might write here, is likely to change before it has been read.

Gemini, Libra communicate beautifully as long as Gemini remembers that Libra must win, Libra must lead, Libra is logical, Libra is always right.  Don't let the grin, adorable dimples cause you to think otherwise.  Those are weapons to help Libra's get their way.  When they can't do it with their superior intellect, deductive reasoning, or oily smooth voice, they will bat their wide, innocent eyes, flash the smile, dimple a few times and the opposition simply melts away.

Who can resist?  Gemini, and frequently does so.  Gemini invented persuasion, conning, coaxing and tricking the timid, with a blend of charm and wit.  Gemini and Libra will have lengthly discourses on every subject imaginable, and they both have immense imaginations.  Sumetimes the discussions are friendly, sometimes not.  But they will usualy remain in speaking terms, since silence for anything but the briefiest time is pretty much impossible for both of them.  These people do like to talk, neither likes to listen.

Unlike Libras, Geminis juggle polarities and contradictions, not in sequence, but simultaneously, constantly synchronizing their dual thoughts.  Why not?  There are always two of him or her to handle anything. Decision making is one of their differences.  Gemini decides quick as a flash, and that's it.  No regret, no anxiety, no waiting or wondering, action -NOW.  Libra balances, weighs, judges, ponders, puzzles, assimilates, and postpones action til tomorrow, sometimes it never comes.  You might want to note - even though Gemini makes lightening speed decisions, they may not mean anything, because they are subject to change just as quickly.  Once Libra finally decides, it's not likely anything will change due to the precautions already taken.

Gemini Woman - Libra Man

The fact that the Gemini woman and Libra man are so much alike is what makes them so compatible and happy together.  Also, the fact that the Gemini woman and Libra man are so much alike is what starts most of the trouble between them.

They know each other too well, sympathize with one another's dreams and idiosyncrasies, can calmly cope with their mutual chameleon qulities, comprehend each other's moods, and will usually stick together against outsiders who don't understand .  They have a better than average chance for success.

While they both are moved by beauty, acutely disturbed by untidiness, ugliness, and disorder, they may need someone to clean up after them.  Since Gemini is quicker, she will pick up his dirty socks and banana peels.  In return, he will probably not deny her money, if he has it, to make their surroundings more comfortable and beautiful. It's not likely you will hear loud music in a Libra's home, they can't stand loud noise.

When they quarrel, it will almost always be she who starts it - he will finish it.  At least it will seem that way to observers.  Twin girl possesses a sharp, satirical tongue, and is not shy about using it when her fast mind urges her to express her opinions.  Libra man learned early in life that rudeness and frank speech is a stumbling block to achieving true and secret purpose, whether in love or business.  So he projects a gentle amiability, most times, and is an expert at hiding his passions and intent behind a smooth smile and persuasive voice.  Yes, she may have started it verbally, but he is likely at the bottom of it, the real instigator, because he couldn't make up his mind about something.  In other words, he's probably not innocent.

Gemini Man - Libra Woman

A Libra woman seldom looks twice at a man beneath her intellectuality.  A Gemini man will seldom sacfifice his precious freedom for a woman who cna't anagram his thoughts and work crossword dreams with him.  It's amusing to watch a Gemini magician get fooled by one of his own magic tricks with a few new twists.  Yet, there is a certain poetic justice bout it.  He has spent all his life charming girls, weaving his way in and out of ramances, making it seem it was always his partner's fault, never his, glibly charming his way back into being friends again, and, in general, enjoying his enviable ability to handle every situation with a string of words from Webster's accompanied by small-boy innocence.

Now he meets a female who is more than his match at the game of guile, who gives him right back what he dishes out.  After he had been led to think he has wooed and won her, after he allows her to harness his free spirit in matirmony, other women may play house in the new age of sexual freedom, Libra settles only for the wedding ring, after all that, he will discover that her gentle, soft, persuasive and amiable manner covers a cool, brilliant mind, a strong will, and a steely determination to get exactly waht she wants.  This is not fluffy bunny rabbit - this is a WAC field general!

He had no wish to attack, but his verbal outburtsts can be sharp and cutting to the Libra girl, who by nature covers every opinion with the softer blur of tact and courtesy.  Still, with his innate charm, he'll win her over and make her believe he didn't mean what he said, which he likely didn't.  Gemini's never mean what they say for longer than an hour or so.