Dates and Dating Blog http://24-7dates.com en-us Tue, 09 Mar 2010 07:21:52 GMT Tue, 09 Mar 2010 07:21:52 GMT Your mother and father have probably been warning you about the "bad guy" as far back as you can remember. Well, chances are likely that you'll encounter more than a few while in high school. Every school has at least a few male pigs whose only goal in life is to hook up and get laid. These guys will come at you in completely different ways. Some will be obvious players, while others will masquerade under a sweet and innocent pretense. This is how you can identify them.

1) When the two of you are alone...he spends more time touching than talking.

2) He doesn't respect your sexual limits and dating rules. He always keeps trying after you say stop...and he never cares too much if you get upset.

3) He brags to his friends about what the two of you have done (or haven't done).

4) He becomes an octopus the second the two of you touch lips. If all he's trying to do is cop feels, get into your pants, or go up your shirt, you're dealing with a guy who's more interested in your body than your mind.

5) He never wants to go on dates with you. He prefers to come over to your house and "hang out".

6) He avoids places or situations where other girls might see him with you.

7) He's never taken the time to really get to know you.

8) He has a reputation for being a player. If you're considering getting involved with a guy who has a habit of using girls, you need to stop and think why he would treat you any different. Because you're not like all the other girls? Please...that's just what all the other girls thought, too.

9) He takes off right after sex. Does he make a habit of running out the door the second he gets laid? Does he never want to sit around and talk? If so...he's only after your body.



]]> Tue, 09 Mar 2010 07:21:51 GMT

Summary:
Shyness is a very important issue, that
nervousness that overcomes in certain social
situations. It can be like a roadblock
in creating a friendship or even
starting a conversation with the one we meet.

Shyness can start in someone's personality from
early childhood. A shy person may be viewed as
overly serious, even humorless because for him it
can be difficult to do something as simple as a smile, or
even say ' hello' to somebody. He does not know
how to start a conversation or how to handle one in
dating situations, so they tend to hide.

Shy people date less; they are more focused on
themselves than others when in conversation. They
have irrational beliefs about what other people
think about them. They are considered less
friendly, not interested, and even boring.
Therefore, loneliness can come from shyness.

The problem with shyness is that we built
negative beliefs about ourselves based on lack of
skills. Shyness has several components that
interact and affect the mind, body and behavior
of a shy person.

If you are a shy person, you are probably
somewhere between uncomfortable and paralyzed at
the thought of meeting new people to the point
where it interferes with your goal of dating and
ultimately having an intimate relationship.

People who fear meeting other people, asking
for dates, or divulging personal information are
at a significant disadvantage in the dating game.
Therefore, if you are a shy person you have to overcome your
shyness if you want to attract the one you like.

First, recognize that you have a problem, and
talk with someone about this. Constructive
counseling can help. Have self-confidence; do not
be afraid to talk with everyone you meet,
you will see that you have so many things to
share.

Get out and socialize, join activities in which
you are always interacting with people, like clubs, parties, gym or even colleges.

Your shyness is triggered by the inability to
approach someone that you consider attractive.
This occurs when you think about your flaws, you
have the fear of rejection. You approach her by
engaging her in conversation.

Start with a smile, show her that you are
friendly and approachable, and start some small talk.
If you feel intimidated, and even if you
make a small mistake do not lose yourself. Do not
worry; she will forgive you faster than you think.


Do not take things personally if a joke, comment or insinuation is made likely is is not intended to upset you, enjoy the moment. Laugh with her and show her that you are a good listener and you like spending time with her.

If you can relieve your shyness, you will see that your life will change totally.

Lets get out there and meet someone new
]]> Fri, 05 Mar 2010 10:19:20 GMT Gemini - Capricorn Relationship

There are lessons Capricorn can learn from Genini.  Innocently self-centered, intellectually independent and curious, Gemini is magically able to temproarily enter the realms of every book ever read, every movie ever seen, every symphony ever heard - to move as naturally and freely in that so-called imaginary world as if it were the kingdom of his or her birth.

Consequently, the Twins can present the Goats with the valuable knowledge of how to be more than just a visitor to the worlds of literature, music, art - for the worlds of make-believe are where they live.   Capricorn benefits from this, because it is so difficult for the Goat to comprehend the reality of any place but Earth, Capricorn being so rooted in it, so practical and down-to-earth on both a conscious and subconscious level.

There are of course, rare Capricorns whose imaginations flash during a summer thunderstorm, but the more typical Goat does not waste time pondering anything which can't be taken apart and put back together again by blueprint.  When Capricorns fly, the make their reservations early, to be safe.  If they go by car, they take a map, to be sure.  There are no blueprints, no maps to guide the astral traveler.  Trips out-of-the-body, into worlds beyond the material or the physical senses, don't require a reservation--only faith.

Gemini, when investigating other worlds, is not necessarily motivated by faith or spiritual hunger.  The Twins are usually motivated by simple curiosity.

Capricorns are inclined to keep their own counsel.  Geminis are born and natural communicators.  Which is right?  Both are- each in hers or her own way, as long as niether interfers with the other doing his own thing, or her own thing.  With these two signs, their own thing is rare.

Gemini Woman - Capricorn Man

They start out with a mutual admiration of one another, he in awe of her quick mind, her ability to untangle knots with the greatest of ease, arriving at solutions to intricate problems effortlessly.  She will respect his wisdom, a different matter altogether from her her own quick intellect and cleverness.  After a time, however, the essential differences in their natures may become more visible. There is a gravity to Capricorn whicn can depress her, a curious moodiness in her own make-up which can disturb him.  Often, their dispositions, personalities, characteristics and motivations are miles apart.

In family matters, he is close to his, she is not.  Then there's money.  Both like it. She uses it to spread around, he uses it as a sort of emotional tranquilizer.  As long as he knows it's in the bank, he can relax and breathe easy.

When a Capricorn man is upset, corss, or out of sorts, he pouts, becomes silent and suller.  When she's the same way, she can be caustic, bitter and sarcastic.  His moods are somewhat predictable, hers never are.

While he may be somewhat mundane to her in the early years, if she can remember that in later years he is likely to become exciting, more youthful, more free, the older he gets.  If she can find the patience needed, this is a big request of a Gemini, the rewards will be worth it.

Gemini Man - Capricorn Woman

It's a good thing for the Goat and the Twins that we've recognized her right to be practical and intelligent, along with his right to daydream occasionally, even weep when he is touched by beauty.

Due to their natural inclinations, and disinclinations, their sexual relationship may not always be a smoldering volcano of intensity.  Strangely, it may fulfill the desire the both have for physical lovemaking, to be conforting and close but not all-consuming.  Even in their most intimate moments, he needs to feel his own independence and freedom.  So does she.

We know Capricorn  is practical, feet on the ground.  Gemini is the dreamer, explorer.  If they travel a lot he will be happier.  She will be less so, she can't pitch a tent and call it home.  As she ages however, the idea of a trip may excite her, as long as she knows it will lead back home.

Should the relationship break apart, it won't be easy for the Goat Girl to let go.  If she gives herslef completely to a man, she cannot take back her gift without pain.  She intends a forever thing, should it end, there usually won't be hysterical scenes of weeping and accusation, no excessive emotional displays.  She will simply turn, hide her tears, walk away and not come back.

Gemini will likely lament to the world about his losses, the turn and smile, thinking tomorrow is a brand new day, and who knows what it may hold.  He's thinking maybe a reconciliation, forgiveness, and a chance to try again, this time treating her heart more tenderly.  Good luck with that!




]]> Mon, 16 Jun 2008 14:59:37 GMT Gemini - Sagittarius Relationship

There are two types of Archers: those who take after the front end or human half of the Centaur, and those who take after the rear end or equestrian half.  You may have met both types.  I have.

I'm sure you all know by now, Gemini is also a double sign, dual in personality, multiple in word and action.  I'll bet you don't know the task involved insorting out all these identities for the purpose of describing one complex relationship between just two people?  The math alone is discouraging.

The Sagittarius friend or neighbor you have, think about that person, they may have a gift for zinging out tactless verbal arrows of truth, yet is the kind of Sag who acts like Bashful, Seven Dwarfs) at a party.  Please note, a shy Sag is rare.

With double signs, you always face the problem of dual personality traits, extroverts vs introverts.  With Gemini, they have no traits in common whatsoever, except the fact that each one of them is a double-mirror image, has two or more dispositions and personalities, which they can cange as naturally and as quickly as you or I can change from swim suits to sweaters when the wind can't make up its mind.

These two signs do well most of the time, Gemini can incite Sag into action, both negative and positive, that they would not have taken before.  Gemini needs the Archer's high motivation, ideals, warmth, enthusiasm, and sincerity, also Sag's ability to travel over more terrain mentally, emotionally, geographically.  Sagittarius longs for the cool poise and charm of Gemini, the talent for keeping the foot out of the mouth, for remaining cool and detached in the face of most disturbing situations, and especially needs the Gemini verbal adroitness, called tact.

When they get together, they have two choices.  Each can admire the opposite traits of the other, and try to imitate them, in order to grow and mature.  Or each can fear and envy the opposite qualities of the other, and try to put them down, robbing each other of all pride in doing their own thing.

By the way, Sag sounds like badge.

Most Geminis are far too intelligent and too fond of their freedom to risk apprehension and confinement by breaking the law, but those wo do, flirt with antisocial activities lea toward the light-fingered crimes, such as twirling combination locks, forgery and counterfeiting.  Seldom will a Gemini be guilty of homicide, they prefer to mastermind the crome and delegate the authority for the action to others.  Violence offends the sensitivity of the typical Gemini.

The Archers are not always so persuasive as Gemini, and frequently find themselves in hot water when they blurt out uncomfortable truths.  Not that Sagittariaus isn't charming.  They loose it when they begin to fling a string of stinging words with very little subtlety or tact.  Blunt is the word for Sag, and bluntness doesn't win ball games.  It is not sarcasm.  Sagittarius sharp speech hurts only because of the ring of reality most people don't want to hear.  Sarcasm requires a certain kind of twisting of the truth to make the truth clearer than Sag is normally capable of either handling or comprehending.  Even the introverted Twins and Archers are seldom silent when they are together.

Gemini Woman - Sagittarius Man

In many ways, the Archer is a remarkable man.  He has extraordinary vision and warmth, he is thoughtful and he is fluent.  The alert Twin girl, who simply must be intellectuallly fascinated to be able to fall in love finds this  a special experience.  He'll always be frank with her, he'll tell her some of his accomplishments and dreams.  If he doesn't quite answer all her requirements for a lover or husband, well, it's only fair to point out no man ever does, or ever will.

As with all complex personalities, the Sag man will grow to know Gemini girl slowly.  She withholds various fragments of her multiple nature, allowing him to peek at but one at a time.  When he first meets her, she'll definitely withhold.  She'll project only one Twin, the one capable of charming him, naturally.  Twin girl as quite capable of getting what she wants, trouble with this is that she is never sure of what she wants.

His two sides manifest in varying moods, his likes and dislikes are very pronounced and he's susceptible to tension or disharmony in his invironment, especially in his love relationship.  This means he can be a little edgy, easily set off by Gemini duality into a firey Sag explosion.  So it's no wonder she may prefer to keep some things back, and allow herself to be called deceptive, rather than risk walking the plank of his disapproval.  When archers express their disapproval, it can be brutal and to the point, hurtful in the extreme.  Should this sort of thing be repeated often, it can trigger her into sharpening her Gemini sarcasm, causing the love nest to shake a bit, with the Archer becoming mentally confised, and, in return, slashing some deep wounds in her fragile emotions.

Gemini Man - Sagittarius Woman

With Archer girl, Twin boy can't play on-again, off again romance, ranging from cruel iciness to detached boredom, frequently outright deception, mingled with beautiful romance.  This can make Archer girl unsure of herself as a female or even as a human being.  He may try his pseudo-psychoanalysis, nothing wrong with him, its her.  He may get away with it a few times, until she catches on to his trickery.  Twin boys can do outrageous deeds, the expect their woman who loves him to apologize to him as if she did the deed.  No wonder their good salesmen.

So, we have an attraction, they share eternal youthfulness of spirit, inquisitive minds. responsiveness to Nature and a mutual need for freedom, for space between them, so they can move toward their goals.  Both like to dream alone awhile, then return to each other's arms for encouragement.  But alone is not the same as lonely.  Both Gemini and Sag seek the gregarious life, surrounding themselves with people, because they have a secret fear of loneliness.

An interesting sidebar with these two, Twin boy may occasionally incite a quarrel for the purpose of increasing emotion or desire in her.  Anger has a strange way of exciting passion between these two.  Then the argument is resolved by poysical union, or should be.  He's capable of bringing it up for discussion again after their closeness, when it should have been buried and forgotten.  To be fair, she tends to do the same thing.  They should both learn to bury disagreements after intimacy.  Why use sex as a weapon against each other?  Jealsousy is the cause of many of their disptes, with good reason.  Neither is noted for impeccable faithfulness.  Both are too curiou, too changeable, too moody, and desirious of variety to be snowflake-pure-loyal.

They both are moody, if they can manage to stay up while the other is down, they can pull each other through the scary times.  He'll have to curb his tendency to sarcasm when he's annoyed, and she'll have to curb her tendency to tactless remarks, when what he needs is her tenderness and understanding.  Her blunt turth almost always hurts.  So does his sarcasm.  Archer girl has not conception of the word.  He might exagerate thus, "Of course I don't object to a three-hundred dollar pone bill, darling.  It makes me feel important to pay the telephone company all that money, even if it does mean we have to cancel our vacaion." Sarcasm.  She'll be both hurt and puzzled.  Why doesn't he just say straight out that he's angry about the phone bill, and disappointed that it might mean no vacation.  Then she could say sorry,  and work overtime to make up the difference.  As it is, she won't say she's sorry, so there!  Gemini is incapable of saying exactly what he means.

The only thing more stinging than the Twin boy's sharp sarcasm is the Archer girls blunt honesty.  When ill mated these two can verbally slice each other's hearts to ribbons.  There is a lighter side to their relationship.  There's always another side, when two double signs get together.  They will at least respect one another's intellect, and find their mutual moods more fascinating than the boring sameness of others.
]]> Wed, 14 May 2008 11:13:34 GMT Gemini - Scorpio Relationship       

Most people don't know they're dealing with a multiple when they associate with a Gemini, Scorpio duspects the truth right away.  Scorpio suspects everything right away.  It's difficult, if not impossible to fool a Scorpion for long.  The suspicious nature of these people prods them to penetrate mysteries like Sherlock Holmes, but they seldon discuss their conclusions with anyone.  What Scorpio knows, Scorpio keeps to themselves.  Knowledge is power, who give it away?  This brings us to an obvious tendency of, not all, but most Geminis, talking.  Sometimes even gossiping.  At the very best, they usually don't count to ten before speaking, a habit which can upset the more reserved Scorpios, even though Gemini words are often lovely bubbles of light and joy.

Not that Scorpios can't be loquacious too, at times.  They can be, but most Scorps would rather be seen than heard, and preferably not seen if they can possibly help it.  Those unusual Scorps who chatter have a knack for talking about everything except what is really important.  They seldom discuss anything truly personal, about themselves that is.  Anything about someone else they will gladly discuss, unless they've promised to keep it a secret.  It's a rare Scorpio who breaks a promise.  Keeping a promise is a point of honor.  The child-like innocence of the Gemini may annoy Scorpio, Scorp is a lot of things, but "innocence is not the word an Astrologer would choose to describe this Sign.

Scorpio has what can only be called a dominating disposition, ranging all the way from brooding sulkiness to cool withdrawal when things don't go their way.  At other times Scorpio can be gentle, sensitive, sompassionate and fanatically loyal, but never truly warm.  Gemini is likewise often accused of lack of warmth, as for loyalty, Gemini, as we all know by now, is not famous for loyalty, if the true meaning of the word is unswerving devotion to one person, one idea or one ideal for a lifetime.  Gemini does like to swerve!  The Twins have difficulty remaining interested in one topic for a full day without swerving into a different direction, let alone for a entire life-span.  Without periodic variety and changing scenery, the average Twin would sofficate from sheer boredom.

Gemini Woman - Scorpio Man

We should start out by admitting there are some relationships composed of a mixture that succeeds, some Gemini's and Scorpio's who easily manage to find a lasting love, built together on a firm foundation of mutual respect.  Not a lot, but there are some.

"Forever", is a word that frightens a Gemini as much as the word "temporary" frightens the Scorpio.  It isn't that she is unable to remain in live, and true to one man, because many Gemini girls do,  but such faithfulness and permanency must creep up on her subtly, gradually, one tiptoe at a time, until she's totally involved in the relationship without realizing it.  Using forever too soon, or predicting the outcome of the romance when she'd rather guess, spoils the excitement.  The Scorp man can cope with temporary arrangements as well as the next make, but the use of the word itself creates instant doubt and suspicion in his mind, spoiling his sense of power and dominance over the affair.

He'll be initially captivated by her undeniable charm, the bubbles of her voice, her bright mind, her deft conversation and her light touch in every situation.  He's a man, regardless of his masked and caped Batman image, and just as susceptible to the attractions of Eve's apple as any other astrological sign.  Then, after a while, he'll begin to notice that some of her stories have changed ever-so-slightly the second time around.  Gemini's add a little here, take away a little there, for more sparkle, doesn't everyone? 

At this point Mr. Scopr will step back and look again at this woman who almost stole his heart, and may decide to think about it a little longer.  Once he has given his word it pains his soul to break it, so he may slow things up until he's sure she has no surprises to spring on him, like marriages and separations or divorces she forgot to mention.

May be she will hardly note the slight change in his attitide.  She's too busy wondering how long she can stand his stifling scrutiny of her personal life, prying into her secrets, nothing bad or especially shocking, but things she'd like to keep private, and his jealousy.

He may feel she's trying to tear him from his own soul, as a tornado uproots trees.  Even so, if Gemini chooses, she's intelligent enough to figure a way to make the relationship work, and Scorpio is intuitive enough to know how to seal each break so it's stronger afterwards.  If they each desire to do so.  Desire is the key word. 

Gemini Man - Scorpio Woman

A Gemini man possesses the unusual and uncommonly appealing quality of seeming to remain eternally youthful, not rare, for one who is reborn each day, but rare enough to attract the normally self-contained and cautious Scorpio female into wondering what makes him scintillate with such multiple colors of the mood spectrum.  When a Scorpio girl starts to wonder, there's no stopping her until she''s satisfied her wondering with complete knowing.  That means coming closer to him, and closer, until she suddenly looks around herself in alarm.  She's standing between two people different as day from night.  This man is a maze of contradictions, denials and affirmations.

Gemini finds all forms of jealousy difficult to fathom.  He is, of course, duly susceptible to the normal, small tugs of fear regarding the damger of losing his woman to another, like any average male, but the kind of overwhelming sea storms thundered by a Scorpio woman who feels threatened are incomprehensible to him.  When this woman has been hurt, or even suspects she might be hurt, her Scorpio stinger can strike a deadly blow to the ego of the Gemini man who is innocent of the accusations made against him, or guilty as charged, either way.  Most Scorpios find revenge sweet indeed.  Therefore, if she is deceived, or suspects she's been, the retaliation will be swift and cruel, even vindictive, depending on some aspects of her birth planets.  Other than an Aries female, no one can be as jealous as a Scorpio, but Aries has not the same compulsion to get even.

He may tend to criticize and analyze her, since she's so full of silent intrigue, certainly not shallow.  Yet, in doing so, he may be floating in deeper waters than he suspects.  Scorpio doesn't take kindly to analysis, and the insistent questioning of the curious Gemini can cause her to retreat in sullen anger, or lash our with a violent emotional response.  Privacy is as sacred to her as to him.  They need to realize this and not insist upon exploring the things they find puzzling about each other until the resentment grows into a high thick wall.


                    
                                                                                                                                                                                                ]]> Fri, 09 May 2008 12:20:13 GMT Gemini - Libra Relationship


Since Libra's can never make up their minds, and Gemini's are continually changing theirs, it's hard to know what to predict will happen in a relationship between these two, whether relatives, husband-wife, friends, business partners, lovers, mates or what ever.  Anything I might write here, is likely to change before it has been read.

Gemini, Libra communicate beautifully as long as Gemini remembers that Libra must win, Libra must lead, Libra is logical, Libra is always right.  Don't let the grin, adorable dimples cause you to think otherwise.  Those are weapons to help Libra's get their way.  When they can't do it with their superior intellect, deductive reasoning, or oily smooth voice, they will bat their wide, innocent eyes, flash the smile, dimple a few times and the opposition simply melts away.

Who can resist?  Gemini, and frequently does so.  Gemini invented persuasion, conning, coaxing and tricking the timid, with a blend of charm and wit.  Gemini and Libra will have lengthly discourses on every subject imaginable, and they both have immense imaginations.  Sumetimes the discussions are friendly, sometimes not.  But they will usualy remain in speaking terms, since silence for anything but the briefiest time is pretty much impossible for both of them.  These people do like to talk, neither likes to listen.

Unlike Libras, Geminis juggle polarities and contradictions, not in sequence, but simultaneously, constantly synchronizing their dual thoughts.  Why not?  There are always two of him or her to handle anything. Decision making is one of their differences.  Gemini decides quick as a flash, and that's it.  No regret, no anxiety, no waiting or wondering, action -NOW.  Libra balances, weighs, judges, ponders, puzzles, assimilates, and postpones action til tomorrow, sometimes it never comes.  You might want to note - even though Gemini makes lightening speed decisions, they may not mean anything, because they are subject to change just as quickly.  Once Libra finally decides, it's not likely anything will change due to the precautions already taken.

Gemini Woman - Libra Man

The fact that the Gemini woman and Libra man are so much alike is what makes them so compatible and happy together.  Also, the fact that the Gemini woman and Libra man are so much alike is what starts most of the trouble between them.

They know each other too well, sympathize with one another's dreams and idiosyncrasies, can calmly cope with their mutual chameleon qulities, comprehend each other's moods, and will usually stick together against outsiders who don't understand .  They have a better than average chance for success.

While they both are moved by beauty, acutely disturbed by untidiness, ugliness, and disorder, they may need someone to clean up after them.  Since Gemini is quicker, she will pick up his dirty socks and banana peels.  In return, he will probably not deny her money, if he has it, to make their surroundings more comfortable and beautiful. It's not likely you will hear loud music in a Libra's home, they can't stand loud noise.

When they quarrel, it will almost always be she who starts it - he will finish it.  At least it will seem that way to observers.  Twin girl possesses a sharp, satirical tongue, and is not shy about using it when her fast mind urges her to express her opinions.  Libra man learned early in life that rudeness and frank speech is a stumbling block to achieving true and secret purpose, whether in love or business.  So he projects a gentle amiability, most times, and is an expert at hiding his passions and intent behind a smooth smile and persuasive voice.  Yes, she may have started it verbally, but he is likely at the bottom of it, the real instigator, because he couldn't make up his mind about something.  In other words, he's probably not innocent.

Gemini Man - Libra Woman

A Libra woman seldom looks twice at a man beneath her intellectuality.  A Gemini man will seldom sacfifice his precious freedom for a woman who cna't anagram his thoughts and work crossword dreams with him.  It's amusing to watch a Gemini magician get fooled by one of his own magic tricks with a few new twists.  Yet, there is a certain poetic justice bout it.  He has spent all his life charming girls, weaving his way in and out of ramances, making it seem it was always his partner's fault, never his, glibly charming his way back into being friends again, and, in general, enjoying his enviable ability to handle every situation with a string of words from Webster's accompanied by small-boy innocence.

Now he meets a female who is more than his match at the game of guile, who gives him right back what he dishes out.  After he had been led to think he has wooed and won her, after he allows her to harness his free spirit in matirmony, other women may play house in the new age of sexual freedom, Libra settles only for the wedding ring, after all that, he will discover that her gentle, soft, persuasive and amiable manner covers a cool, brilliant mind, a strong will, and a steely determination to get exactly waht she wants.  This is not fluffy bunny rabbit - this is a WAC field general!

He had no wish to attack, but his verbal outburtsts can be sharp and cutting to the Libra girl, who by nature covers every opinion with the softer blur of tact and courtesy.  Still, with his innate charm, he'll win her over and make her believe he didn't mean what he said, which he likely didn't.  Gemini's never mean what they say for longer than an hour or so.


      
]]> Tue, 06 May 2008 10:51:27 GMT Gemini-Virgo Relationship

Playful Gemini Twins, may indeed, seem like heartless children to the more sensible and serious Virgos.  Always out chasing cobwebs and mirages, jumping bout like grasshoppers, getting caught in summer braiinstroms and trying to be in two places at once.  To the typical Virgo, Gemini's quick changes of both heart and mind are clearly flaws which need immediate correction.

Perfection is not a quality Geminis enjoy cultivating.  They do appreciate, perhaps admire, and need the more stable attitude of Virgo, and are often relieved to find the Virgo person still there, in the same place where they were left, when Gemini flew away a few hours, weeks, months or years, to see what was happening on the other side of the mountain.  But if they are going to be scolded when they return, they'll just skip off again.  Children never like scolding.  All Geminis are essentially children at heart.  Not Virgos.

Virgo's are possessed of a heavy sense of life's duties, and a mature sense of reliability.  They either live up to it or they feel quilty about not doing it develop hies, ulcers, or hiccups.  Flip side, Gemini seldom feels guilty about anything.  At least not where it shows.

With Virgo everything shows.  Especially secret, nagging worries.  Since Virgo rules the bowels, intestines, and solar plexus, these nagging worries, expressed first in a slight frown, then tight lips, can cause actual infection or disability in these areas.  The more secret the worries, the more apt they are to manifest into nausea, indigestion or constipation.  Virgo's should get it out in the open more often, talk about it, express themselves, say what is on their minds.

Gemini is expert at gettin it out in the open.  Gemini can teach Virgo how to excel in gab, gleeful glibness and scintillating syntax.  Virgo knows how to spell all those words, but putting them into action is another matter.

It must be admitted that the average Virgo man or woman does not practice provoking trouble, and does not usually respond to it quickly either, unlike Geminis, with their constant stirring up of a tempest from a breath of choppy air, and often reacting in hurricane fashion to what seems to them to be constant, critical carping and harping from Virgo.  Of course, to Gemini, a quarrel is not really a qurral, merely an intellectual encounter.  With Virgo, arguments go deeper, and the hurt lasts longer

In any dispute between Gemini and Virgo, Gemini will nearly always win the main point, being faster on the draw and quicker with the cinching retort.  But winning a quarrel can't settle everything.  May not settle anything with Virgos, who know that what appears to be an absolutely factual statement can still be full of errors and misleading insinuations.  The greatest talent of all Twins is the fascinating ability to twist truth and falsehood in such a way as to weave them together and make each appear to be the other.  It fools almost everyone but a Virgo.

Gemini Woman-Virgo Man

The first problem this man and woman face is the contrast between her gregariousness and his tendency to reclusivity.  If he's a typical Virgo male, he would really prefer to live alone, without the necessity of having a constant companion tagging along beside him, even if she's bright, pretty, aoft and squeezable.  A man can't spend all his time squeezing a wife.  Some hours  must be spent making plans for future security.

Consequently, when the Gemini girl seeks periodic flings of freedom, her Virgo man may grumble a bit, but inwardly he sighs with relief.  Now he can have a little peace and quiet, to figure the nature of things.  As for jealousy, Virgo won't be unless it is indicated he need to be.  Most of the time Gemini's are accused of infidelity and it isn't so, not always, but most of the time.  The deal is that Gemini's need to communicate with a variety of people, the oppisite sex represents about half of their circle.  So what's the fuss?

Practicality, too little or too much of it, will be the true underlying cause of many of their arguements.  He has too much to please her and she has too little to suit him, providing each of typical of their Astrolgy Sign.

If he expects a neat house and on time meals, it won't take long for him to find out she's not sure there's a need for perfection in these areas.  She's capable of being an exqusite hostess, but there's seldom anyone brought home to hostess, and if she chooses, she can create a wonderful home atomophere.  But it's doubtful that she will scrub floors with true enthisiasm and excitement, and if she smokes, hopefull not, there may be a few dirty ashtrays around.  This won't make a hit with him, because most Virgos detest smoking to begin with, and they positively despise the offensive odor of full ashtrays.

Surprisingly, the usual, petty, day-to-day irritations may not cause any major quarrels between them.  A Virgo man doesn't really demand a whole lot from either love or marriage, except maybe his own Vicks salve jar, and neither does she.  He would appreciate some punctuality concerning meals, at least a semblance of faithfullness.  But, in general, a Gemini girl is adaptable enough to cope with things that could cause despair in other femans, and he's practical enough not to expect love and marriage to be made either in heaven or in hell, but somewhere in-between.

Gemini Man - Virgo Woman

This love affair may have a rough romantic row to hoe.  That doesn't mean they can't raise cabbage together, but their garden of love wil need frequent weeding.

Most Gemini men have forgotten their birth dates, either innocently or deliberately, by the time they reach twenty-one.  Virgo girls have memorized the hour, minute and second of birth, besides that, they believe eternal youth is not only impossible, but would be a bore.  He finds it both possible and enchanting.

When they first fall in love, due to their mutual curiosity, she'll be thrilled with the possibilities of casual, careless living, while he'll be flattered with her rapt attention, her alert mind, and her vey feminine manner.  After a time, she'll question the wisdom of setting her life to a man who seems to be eternally wandering, either physically, mentally or meotionally, his thoughts and actions no more predictable than the weather.  He may latter feel her attention is a bit too rapt, her mind too alert to allow him his needed prifacy now and then, in which to do his abstract thinking.

If she doesn't take him too seriously, their relationship can be ;mentally exciting, emotionally intriguing, and lots of fun.  But, Virgo takes everything seriously, and she's not going to make an exception of a lover or husband.
There's not doubt they'll respect one aonther's mental abilities, yet they may toooften stifle open expressions of affection in each other.  Neither he or she may comprehend the need for depth in an emotional relationship.  She'll attend to all her duties regarding him, neglectin no details.  She'll sew on buttons, give excellent advice on his carrer, if and when he should ask, seldom or never pressing her opinions upon him uninvited.  She'll be a stimulating companion.

He'll find time to talk with her about all her worries, will encorage discussions between them about anything that's on her mind, and allow her lots of room for the free development of her own ideas, ideals and goals.  He won't smother her with undue jealousy or possessiveness, but he may cause her to feel boxed-in with his sometimes excessive prying and probing, on a verbal level.


]]> Mon, 28 Apr 2008 11:22:34 GMT Gemini - Leo Relationship

Gemini Calculates the sunny but sometimes insufferable antics of the Lion, The Twins wonder: "Does the big cat actually posses such complete self-assurance? or could Leo only be trying to prove that the reality is as infallible and fearless as the image?" - a typical Gemini mind trip.

As the Leo lazily studies the Gemini Twins, the cat has a similar thought: "All that mental and physical activity must be a compensation of some kind.  Survival alone isn't sufficient reason for so much unnecessary maneuvering.  Is Gemini trying to span East, West, North, and South all at once to hide the fact that they are lost in the woods with a broken compass?"

They've both guessed the truth about each other.  Yes, the Cat's are trying to prove to themselves and the rest of the world, through a show of arrogant bravado, that Leo's are as brave inwardly as the outwardly seem.  And yes, Gemini is trying to prove to the Twin Self and everyone else that they are racing straight ahead, in the right direction, and not really running around in circles.

The Twin gifts of charm and glibness make the typical Gemini an expert Lion tamer, cleverly cajoling Leo to docilely jump through their Gemini hoops.  When your're conversing with a Lion, you sandwich the cold facts in between thick slices of warm flattery.  There's a technique to it - like grovel while you're leveling with them.

Leo's are excellent organizers, expert at delegating authority, and settled enough to wait out with composure the final success of their grandiose schemes and promotions.  But they may not show as much patience with Gemini's changability.  The Cat's can become indignant over the Twins' tnedency to speed through life, discarding former convictions like yesterday's newspaper, tossing away homes and jobs and friends with minor flaws, too soon, with no reflective retrospection, but simply dashing off to the next fascinating interest.  To the loyal, more languid Leo, fast is not always best, or right.  Then Gemini will be treated to one of Leo's lectures of enlightenment.

Leos the eternal Big Brothers and Sisters, are unable to resist predicting that the people they guide are going to want to look them up someday to thank them for their unsolicited pearls of wosdom.  As if Gemini had time to stop and make out a list of such obligations.  They're too busy selling that sour cream as buttermilk.  As for the holes Leo cautioned them about, Geminis will simply leap out of them, land on their feet, and skate across the same thin ice again, while Leo pouts and asks petulantly, "Don't you ever get caught?"

Yes, sometimes Geminis do get caught by their own cleverness.  Why worry, when the brave King or Queen will pull them out in a last-minute rescue?  Then, Leo will blush and bow as Gemini sings Leo's favorite lyric of flattery.  "Boy, You sure were right about everything you said.  Thanks for warning me in time.  I don't know what I'd do without you," say the Twins, quite probably sincerely, who have not managed to have their cake and eat it too.  Royal protection, plus freedom.

Gemini Woman - Leo Man


A Leo man will often deny his superiority complex and try to hide his exaggerated need for respect, but he can't fool the bright Gemini girl who loves him.  The Gemini woman is defensive of her Lion.  She wants to shield him and unintentional wounds to his vanity.  Something in her perceptive heart tells her the right thing to san and do, at the right time, to bring out alll his warm tenderness and generosity.  She looks up to him as a safe, loving haven from a world of skeptics, who don't understand her.  Naturally, this flatters the Big Cat's masculine pride, which he possesses in greater abundance than the average male, and makes him cherish her all the more.  It can slowly slither into a mutual-admiration society.

However, their basic compatibility won't prevent spells of rebellion of both sides.  Her nonchalance can fire the Leo temper, which is slow to ignite, but difficult to extinguish, once it's aroused and flaming.  Then she may use the quarrel to practice her syntax and sarcasm, which will cut sharply into his Leo ego.  If her multiple fascinations and outside interests should distract her from daily worship of the Lion, he'll wonder what any other monarch wonders when his subjects are too busy to line up at the curb and cheer him, maybe they're no longer layal to their King.  Maybe she's found someone she admires more than him.

The poor girl doesn't know what she's risking.  He's told her a number of times about all the girls before her and how grief striken they were when he left them, she better watch herself or he'll dig up his fat little black book and call a few numbers, even though most of them are married or nuns, they would jump at the chance to get back together, some women know when they are lucky.

While he may roar from time to time, he will forgive her the minute she flashes her Gemini bloney and pulls off a quick change from the flighty, reckless, bitter Twin to the sensible, womanly, devoted Twin.  As for her outside interests, he won't mind, as long as nothing takes priority over him.  A woman who is the King's favorite has rewards.  A Lion is full of fun, generous with his time and money, strong and brave, even gentle, when his ego is stroked softly in the right direction.  Last but not least, he's a wonderful lover.  Her Genini talent fro imagery will bring excitement to their physical relationship, and if she contnues to evoke in him the sensation that he's a sexual conqueror, he'll remain a satisfied and monogamous monarch.

Gemini Man-Leo Woman

Every Lioness, quiet naturally, has an instinctive desire to tame the man she loves, to make him her exclusive property.  she needs a mate in whom she can have absolote faith, a man who is clearly stronger than she is, and yet, who will cherish her without reservation.  It's a might tall order, escpecially when she sets out to tame a Gemini.

In the Game of Love, as in the Game of Life and Living, this man is what card players call a kibitzer.  He hangs around, with always a few hidden aces up his sleeve, aware of everyone's hand, confident that he could, if need be, pass off a busted straight as a royal flush.  He knows a lot about everything, but not quite enough to make a grand slam and end the challenge he finds so intriguing.  It makes more sense to Gemini to be a jack-of-all-trades and master of none.  Once you become expert at any one of them, people have an annoying habit of expecting you to stay there, doing your thing forever.

Gemini has a need for change, any kind of change at all, just so it's change.  No long term investments in a career, family ties, friendship or romance, for the typical Gemini male- at least, not while he's young.  That might be a long time, as Gemini never grows up.

If Kitty Girl has permanence in mind, she'll first have to tame him.  A Gemini man is slippery and elusive.  Remember, there are two of them.  His escape hatches are covered with such charm of speech and gesture that this man can be gone while a girl is still swooning over the wisp of beauty he draped over her to camouflage his departure and make it easier for her to bear.  He does have a kind heart.  But the Lioness has a head start on this sort of chicanery, because a Leo woman doesn't swoon over men.  Men swoon over her, and don't you forget it!

Since the Gemini man is bored by most females, because they all seem the same to him, Leo Girl will have to convince him that she's not like all others.  She'll have to seed memories in his mind and convince hem that she's unique.  It's all part of the Gemini taming process.  A girl who loves this man must keep up with both his mind and his body, not to mention his two separate personalities and his multiple moods.  Eventually, he'll begin to think of her as the most unique woman he's ever known.  But he won't be completely tamed until he thinks of ther as the most unique woman he ever will know.  there's a definite difference, and a Lioness will comprehend what I mean right away.

This man and woman are both extravagant with words and with money.  They share exquisite taste, they both adore dressing up, they're equally fond of travel, literature and the arts.  They're also both equally adept at getting their own way, she through the lovable quality of expecting it as her right, he, through his irristible blarney.  Leo Girl can tame the Gemini man more easily if she remembers the rules for taming any restless, active, yet curious bird.  It requires much patience, and you start by smiling at him with your eyes, at a distance, taking care not to move too quickly, for that would frighten him away.  In the beginning, silent communion is best, because words, especially between these two Signs, often contain the seeds of misunderstanding.  then if she moves a little nearer him every day and never causes him to feel his freedom is threatened----------
]]> Thu, 17 Apr 2008 11:58:00 GMT Gemini - Cancer Relationship

There's a party in progress.  Both Gemini and Cancer are good talkers.  The Crab's ability to remember details and to tell a story with sensitive perception, laced with imagination and humor, can hold a crowd spellbound.  If there's also a Gemini in the room, weaving tall takes with wit and charm, and maybe doing a few card tricks on the side, the bystanders won't know which of the three rings to watch at the circus.  (One ring for Cancer, two rings for Gemini.)

Before the party is over one or the other, maybe both, will whip out a camera and start snapping.  Gemini and Cancer share a love of photography.  Threre are four Astrology Signs that have potential for professional photography, Gemini, Cancer, Leo, Pisces.  Each for a different reason.

Both Gemini and Cancer are dreamers, and both expert in the art of getting publicity, the Crabs pretend not to be interested, but fool no one, they adore attention.  They both also have vivid imaginations, and they're both inclined to laugh in public and cry in private.  You may think it's difficult to tell them apart.  It is not.  The Twins prefer to dash around, here and there, communicating ideas and dreams, to being the Big Boss and running the show.  The Crabs definitely do not enjoy communicating, especially their own secrets, and prefer to run things, not necessarily out front, with a brass band, but still very much in charge.

Crabs are impressionable, sensitive men, women, and children.  They tend to be periodically contrary and sullen, borrding over slights, real or imagined.  The Twins can usually sweet-talk or double-talk them into crawling back out of their shells.  Gemini is the mental or actual wanderer, a lonely drifter, cut loose from ties, emotionally, sometimes litterally, homeless, lost and seeking, the eternal child.  A Cancer is the eternal Mother or Father, protective, warm, tender and coaxing.  It's little wonder these two are drawn to each other, part, then return, then part again.

The element of Water, when it saturates Air with enough moisture, causes a shower that clears the atmosphere of fog, smog, and misunderstanding.  Consequently, Cancer can make Gemini pour out those Twin desires, shed some truthful tears, and pause a moment, now and then, to remember the things that really matter.

Gemini Woman - Cancer Man

Crab Boy lives in his sensations, emotions and imagination.  He loves history and likes to read about the glory of bygone ages.  But he's rather romantic about the past, his own and historical chraracters, and he doesn't like to be reminded that the Knights of the Round Table may have possessed some flaws, that the horses they rode had burrs in their tails, they wore swetty shirts under their chain mail, knights, not the horses, ate with their fingers, and may have slept with comely wenches on dirty straw.  In the Crab's sentimental mind, a knight has impeccable table manners, and he rides a snow-white steed, with a fluffy, carefully brushed tail.  There's nothing  wring with a Crab treating a Gemini girl to his sense of chivalry,  But she should be aware, even if he's not, of the historical fact that many a knight, reached into his visor for the key he carried to the iron chastity belt of his modest lady fair, and sometimes pulled out the wrong key.  A Gemini girl can get carried away by the gallantry conjured up in her own imagination.

Look out here G girl, when Crab boy's possessiveness crosses swords with your insistance on freedom, the clash can cut into your mutual dreams cruelly.  When Crab boy discovers this girl is really two women, one content to nestle happily beside him in the tower room of the castle, the other determined to wander the slopes, playing with the antelope, chasing the hounds, he may pout, he may snap at her, he may retreat into crabby seclusion in the dark, damp dungeon, waiting for her to trip down the stone steps and entice him out again.  If there's something else on her mind, he'll have a long wait down there.

Twin girls have been know to forget mundane responsibilities like lovers licked in dungeons when they've been caught up in a fitful flight of fancy or a mental whim.  Not that she doesn't have a great memory, but other interest take priority sometimes even over love, until she gets lonely. Then she'll come back looking for forgiveness and comfort.  Their stroy could have a happy ending after all, since a Crab boy is about as comforting as they make the male animan.  No one can be more tender, gentle and understanding to a lost and mixed -up Gemini girl than a Crab.

Happiness in not impossobile, but will take patience on her part and some adaptability on his.  It won't be easy because patience for her is tough to come by.  For him, the constant mood changes are tough to follow.  He may pass through a mood of reckless abondon to match hers, then return to his hard shell before she's even had a chnce to enjoy it.  It takes patience and devotion on both sides.

Gemini Man - Cancer Woman

Normally, a Gemini man is able to analyze people quickly, with a swift, sure insight.  Normally, a Cancer girl is acutely perceptive of homan nature.  Yet, for all his cleverness and mental agility, and for all her talent at worming secrets out of people, the one puzzle Gemini and Cancer can't seem to solve is each other.  There's alwasy a piece missing.  Ask a Gemini man what disturbs him most about the Crab girl he loves, and he'll tell you, "I never know what she's thinking."  Ask Crab girl what troubles her most, she'll say "I don't know what he wants."

In their sexual relationship, pure physical sensation will be less emphasized than the passions of the mind and a kind of emotional eorticism.  Her affectionate tenderness and vivid imagination are a good balance for his delicate touch and his sensitive sexual nature.  When they're expressing their love on a physical level, they may even find that missing peice to be the puzzle of each other they're always looking for, and become whole, for brief moments.  Because she needs constant, tangible proof that she's really needed, not just routinely desired, his airy embraces could sometimes cause her to wish he would hold her more closely, and longer, just so she can be sure.  Their most ideal sexual fulfillment together may frequently be during the Full Moon, when she seems to possess a strange, magnetic power to gently reach into the secret corners of this Twin heart and draw him away from his dreams back into the intimate mystery of their union, the deepest dream of all.

He is impatent with her intrained economical streak if she tries to transfer her financial fears to him.  She'll wonder if he knows how it feels to be poor, and suggest he'll find out if he continues to throw money away.  He'll simply shrug and let her know being broke is temporary, being poor is a state of mind.

A Cancer maiden will underatand this man better if she realizes, however he may appear to the world, to himself he's eternally a young boy, who, in some way, has managed to pilot a plane high in the sky.  He diverts himself now and then with sudden dives and spins, fascinated by finding a prettier cloud, discovering a more beautiful sunrise or sunset, all the while excitedly aware that the great Universe and its glittering galexies lay unexplored for him.  If she truly loves him. for keeps, she'll cheerfully be ready to pack up and move on when his free spirit grows restless, turning each new rest stop, however temporaty, into a worm and welcoming haven, as only a Cancer woman can.  This is the thing a Gemini man needs, to be ale to wander, yet never leave home.  Gradually, she'll tenderly implant herself inside his own longings, until finally, anywhere he hears her lovely laughter becomes home.



]]> Sat, 12 Apr 2008 08:50:45 GMT Gemini - Gemini Relationship

Let's get the math right, a Gemini and a Gemini equals a group of four bright, active people, two sets of twins, tossing ideas, dreams andchallenges back and forth between themselves and the world at large.  While each may see life in different colors, they all travel at the same rate of speed, in that they all understand one another's need for freedom.

When two Gemini's get together, getting their vibes, rhythms and mental perspectives working in a steady pattern, the four of them can use each other as a reassuring tie to reality.  From the home base of their mutual empathy, they can run out and seduce the world, return briefly to be understood, then go out again on a new mental seduction.  If you're getting this, you must be a Gemini, because it's all Astrologically correct, but complicated Mercury double talk.  If you are reading this to understand a Gemini couple, hang in there.

Gemini double-talk is an aid to superimposing two apparently polarized opinions onto a steroscopic wholeness of third-dimensional depth, the third dimension added by the perceptive recipient of the words.  Still here?  You need to become accustomed to word games if you expect to play verbal Pong-Ping with the Twins, and Pong Ping is the same as Ping-Pong when you're gazing into the Gemini mirror.  More clear now?

Each Gemini contains a twin mirror image of themselves, in reverse, the positive and negative poles of their personality.  Trouble is, Gemini seldom knows which of the split personalities is the real one.  Should anyone ask, "Will the real Twin stand up and be recognized?", two separate people would get up and the game of hide and seek would begin again.  Gemini's tries on masks in an effor to find the true person he or she really is.

Gemini is a mental Sign, they are driven to spinning their brains almost continually, even in their sleep, thinking, theorizing, figuring, projecting, condemming, endorsing, discarding, sorting, and analyzing the cold, hard facts, at the same time they're chasing their visionary dream.  You can see why they're all human jugsaw puzzles.

Gemini roams the world, either mentally or physically, or both, in search of an elsuive ideal of perfect truth and happiness, then often return home again, to listen to a bird singing in a tree, the same bird, same song, same tree they knew as children.  After traveling all over the mental continents of the imaginations, they sometimes, if they're lucky, realize, at last, that their truest dreams were dreamed when childhood's perception wa clear and uncontaminated by adult logic and cynicism.

A double Gemini relationship gives the special and unique satisfaction of association with a person enough like one's own self that there's little fear of rejection of personality, although there's always a danger of an overbalance of the dimilar characteristics.  The duel Gemini relationship is especially comforting to each of the four of them, because it's always reassuring to have a pal, relative, enighbor, business associate, lover or mate who's as messed up as you are yourself.  Saves a lot of tiresome explanations and apologies.  It can also be wearing on the nervous system, because the continual frustration of attempting to fool someone who anticipates all your manuvers and rationalizations.

There are some disadvantages in the Gemini - Gemini relationship.  Lacking the stability of the less complicated Astrology Signs, they can tempt themselves to scatter their talents to the four winds, neither one willing to hold down the other or able to provide the necessary patience and dependability for success, either on an emotional or material level.

Woman - Man

Although it would be more fitting to call them boy and girl, whatever their illusionary chronological age, are sometimes drawn together for no more reason than that it's fun to have someone to cross the street with.
Because all typical Geminis are naturally glib, bright conversationalists, when two of them first meet, both may talk a lot, and it seems like they're not thinking of one another seriously.  Behind the chatter, they are, more seriously then either will admit.  They never say everything that's on their minds to each other, not even years later when they've been in love long enough to know they can trust one another.  There's always something held back.

Geminis in love might ask themselves, each about the other, is the a quality called, faithfulness or fidelity?  Yes, but the door to that particular room in the Gemini heart is tightly sealed, and it takes more than a passkey to open it.  It takes trust and time.  Tow kinds of trust, the complete trust each must give to the other, and the trust required to believe in self, that what you love is really what you need, and all you'll ever need. (That's what takes time.)  But time is free.  Both can use as much of it as they like to find that answer within themselves, and once it's been found and the door unlocked, Gemini will be loyal and true forever.

Astrology doesn't have a final answer.  Perhaps the Gemini boy and girl who are in love will just have to forget about that romantic togetherness formula of, "becoming one", because there will always be four of them.  But that quadruples their chances for happpiness.  So the odds are good if they cover their bets with the double collateral of lots of turst, and lots of patience.
]]> Tue, 08 Apr 2008 14:23:54 GMT
Taurus - Pisces Relationship

Pisces could show Taurus more imaginative ways to make money, and teach them the joys of sharing it with others, along with the truth of the infallible Universal Law that the more you give, the faster it multiplies.

Conversely, Taurus could teach Pisces the proper respect for minimal security, that it's wiser to save at least a few dollars, even if you give away a hundred or so, in case there are a few lean days before that Universal Law goes into effect.  It's such a drag to have to sit on the corner in the rain, holding out a tin cup.  The very idea gives the Bull nervous palpitation, and makes his hair stand on end.

An interesting difference between these two Astrology Signs is, very few Bulls have nicknames, and if they do, they usually don't like them.  Pisces most always has a nickname, or a secret desire for one.  If after awhile their friends don't come through, they will adopt an alias on their own.  They like the exotic, and like to keep their idenities hidden from snoopers.

The fish can't stand direct questions, or being pinned down to a positive stand.  It's the nature of the fish to glide in and out and around a situation looking at all sides, and absorbing its various implications - or glide away quietly from a controversy that chops up the waters around him, and threatens his balance.

None of that sneaking away for a Taurus.  What is there to be faced, he faces, with open courage, and he will remain standing there stubbornly, until he proves his point.  If he can't prove it, after much effort, he turns his strong back and leaves, but he doesn't glide away.  He stalks off heavily back to where he started from, with his original opinion clutched tightly in his arms, across his beefy chest.

That's more or less what happens when these two get into an argument.  There's seldom a satisfactory or final settlement.  But the day can be saved by laughter.  Bull's have a rich, delicious sense of humor, based on everyday living.  Since the very bright Fish has a fine appreciation for humor, somehow, between the grins, they'll either forget their differences, or resolve them through the compromise of their likenesses.

Taurus Woman-Pisces Man

When Bull Girl plays romantic marbles, she shoots to win, and keep all the aggies.  But when she forgets her common sense, she'll find herself playing "Blind Man's Bluff," and that's a game she could lose, unless she cheats a little, and peaks out from under the blindfold over her eyes.  She might as well, if she's playing with a Fish Boy.  He'll certainly cheat by peaking, to see where the relationship is leading.  If it looks like a permanent attachment, he could be a poor loser, and scoot away before he gets caught.  That's his protective reflex action, he'll be back.  There's lots of hope for a relationship between the Bull and Fish.

Both like peace and quiet, both believe in letting sleeping dogs lie.  Why ask for trouble?  There's always plenty to go around.  Bull Girl's patience will serve her well if she's invloved with a Fish Boy, they're never on time.  Fish Boy may wonder what his true image is to the Bull Girl.  He won't really care, but he may wonder.  A Fish usually doesn't work up a anxiety symptoms when he's in love, not on the surface anyway.  He may worry about the rent money, what life really means, what the future holds and such, but to Pisces, romance is a natural state of being.  He is at home in romantic waters, where he learned to swim and dive at a shockingly early age.  Bull Girl may have been cracking up over Howdy Doody, swooning over American Bandstand, depending on her age, while he was planning his first seduction, or being seduced.

Love or the fulfillment of it, comes late to the average Taurus female, which is why she appreciates it and values it more than women born under other Astrology Signs.  It's the waiting that makes things seem special and exciting, whether it's Christmas, Groundhog's Day or the first kiss.

The three-part formula for breaking a Bull Girl's hear is: false primises, deception, and idle drifting.  The triple formula for healing it is: honesty, fidelity and dependability.  If he remembers that, it could be the beginning of the end of his loneliness.

If she accepts his need for periods of isolated contemplation to relax his jangled nerves, he'll always return to her serenity, for a few jokes, a worm bath, a cup of hot soup, and those throaty midnight wispers.  That could be the beginning of a love as special, and worth waiting for, as Christmas morning, Groundhog's Day.  Beneath the passion they feel is the warmth of true friendship, which never fails to deepen love, when it's passed the test of time.

Taurus Man - Pisces Woman

One of the things that may disturb the Bull Boy is the Fish Girl's approach to the truth.  She sees truth as what she feels at the moment, and what she feels at the moment is always vulnerable to suggestion and susceptible to change, as the people, the situation and the viewpoint either dilute it or strengthen it.  Pisces does not see truth as a static, but as a constantly altering thing, depending upon many interpretations.



The Bull sees truth as a fact, eternal and unchanging.  That's what you call a polarity of opinion.  Who's right?  Both really, depending on what truth you are looking for.  Some are never changing, some have multiple sides, some are ever changing, emotions, public opinion, being everything in the universe is relative, why should truth be an exception?

She has one thing going for her that's cool.  Behind her sweetly compliant exterior hides a quick, bright and highly perceptive mind.  She'll catch him up when he least expect it, if what he thinks he's getting away with is a flirtation with another woman, although, she may forgive him almost too quickly, at least the first time.  It's when he's trying to get away with submerging her dreams, and bending her fluid nature to his own rigid one, the she needs practice in toughness.

Not that all their problems arise from his overemphasis on male dominance.  Some of them may be caused by her procrastination, her exasperating elusiveness, her secrecy, exaggerated dependence, or lack of self-confidence, accompanied with lots of tears.  He'll understand her better if he remembers that she not only reflects back all the emotional vibrations in her immediate vicinity, she also absorbs them inwardly through her sympthetic spirit.  How would he do going around mopping up everyone's tears, sopping up their fears, reflecting and absorbing everything from hilarity to hysteria?  It would make anyone a little unsure and shaky at times.

Their passion is not the explosive sort, but he rare tenderness and affection which is so warmly given, and so quietly received, that makes their union so complete and peace restoring intimacy.  There's always a hint of mystery hovering over and around the sexual relationship between Taurus and Pisces, and they're usually both soten to leave it be, maybe sensing that to expose the silent unknown would somehow dim the excitement.
]]> Wed, 02 Apr 2008 11:42:26 GMT I'll be brief today, promise.  Just a reminder, when you review a potential profile from a dating site, check out the birthday, then return here to find out what challenges you may have between your Sun Sign and the Sun Sign of the other person.  While fun, you also gain insight as to compatiblity.

We Astrologers have what are called, "Compatibility Charts," which analyises not only Sun Sign's but the rest of the planets in each of the individual's charts.  This of course provides a more in depth view of a potential relationship.  Relationships are not always for dating or love.  There are business relationships, projects, it might be nice to know in advance how well a team will get along if you have a project going that has a deadline.

Most dating sites speak of compatibility, which refers to the profiles and the interests listed therein.  Compatibility in Astrology speaks of planetary compatibility.  Both work, however, Astrology dosen't lie.
]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2008 14:16:18 GMT Taurus and Aquarius Relationship

Genius and Insanity!  Every Aquarian who ever walked the earth is the first, while also being harrassed, by the second, or accused of it.  Aquarian's are well aware the possess this half-and-half nature, and are untroubled by it, admitting their quirks.  Another Astrologer's (Carroll Righter) mother called him "an odd duckling"--"Well, quack quack."

Aquarians live in alternate dimensions, yesterday, today, tomorrow, generally all three at once, and have the ability to manage quite well.  They gather wisdom and truth from the deep wells of tomorrow.  That's sort of, where it's at, with Aquarius, It being their consciousness, and at, being the triple dimension of Time and Space they visit.

As for the Bulls position in time and space, they exist in the here and now.  One dimension is more than satisfying.  As far as the Bulls are concerned, there are enough problems in the here and now to solve, without looking in some other dimension.  However, Bulls often mumble, like Aquarians, in unintellgible, monosyllables, at times, like, Yep - Nope - Un-Huh - Huh-uh, and Grmmmmmmmmphf.  In this respect there's a faint similarity between them.  Both have a fixity of purpose, you might call it obstinacy.  Outside these similarities, these two are as far apart as two human beings can be, and still recognize one another as being from the same planet.  Taurus wants the status quo, Aquarius wants to change it.

Being neither is inclined to tell all they know at an initial meeting, these things take time.  The Bulls have to determine whether it's worth going further.  Aquarius tends to have a word scrambling device that makes their conversation sound like a tape being played backwards, often with blank spots.  You may hear the Bull saying,
"Grummmmmph", refusing to cope.  The idea is that Taurus and Aquarius will comminicate with one another exactly in the same manner they communicate with the rest of us - in their own time, and in their own way.

Compatibility and comprehension between these two is achieved only with effort, and is rewarded with a good feeling of having accomplished something worth-while when it is finally achieved.  Assuming they have broken the ice with "Grrrrrmmph" and "Howdy." how do they break down the bashful berriers of Taurus, and the detachment of Aquarius.  Bull's have more reserve of manner than Aquarius.  Even timid Aquarian's count everyone as friend, from the mailperson to the president, they don't know the difference.  It's all they can do to to keep themselves straight on the difference between girls and boys, top and bottom, up and down, black and white, cold and hot, and all that.  Typical Aquarias is not predjudiced in their choice of friends, they use the term to describe, lovers, husbands, wives, cats, dogs. squirrels, children, neighbors, dolphins etc.  Aquarian's are no more partial to frends than they are selective of them, so no one ever becomes Aquarius's "best friend."

Takes a Bull several years to make a friend, it takes Aquarius five seconds.  Taurus is suspect of friendships that occur that quickly.

Taurus Woman - Aquarius Man

Very little comes as a surprise to an Aquarian man, considering his intuitive nature.  He may not be prepared for what happens when dating a Bull Girl awhile.  Here he is, a man with a firm set of ethics, they may be peculiar, but they are his, and they are firm.  He has a great feel for humanity, interested in everybody, no prejudices against the female sex, the male sex, or people of any other sex.  Yet, look at the hurt he's caused her, all unaware.  How, they had so much fun at the Zoo, he was just trying to be her friend, pal.

Bull Girl was formed for romance.  His mistake was at the beginning, when he was concentrating his attention on her, asking shocking questions of an intimate sort, giving sympathy when she cried, he should have made a special effort to notice, she's a woman.  She noticed he was a man right away, to her the math is easy, one male plus one female equals ecstasy-on several levels, not the least of which is touching.

Aquarius men, touching means kissing, hugging, holding hands, and all sorts of things, you know contact.  Human contact is an Aquarian fear.  Not really the touching, but what it leads to, two becoming one.  Aquarius feel safer when two remain two.  That way he knows where he stands.  Alone.  Free of obligations, and in no danger of losing his individuality.  If you're going to go around touching people, especially gril-type people, who knows what you're letting yourself in for?  Especially if she forgets to bring her own towel when they go swimming.

A word of warning.  The pet mouse he may use as a peace offering, after a quarrel, might make that a gerbil.  Bull people are closely related, not to just bulls and cows, but also to the elephant.  You know what elephants do when they see a mouse.  Bull Girl will do the same thing,  scream or trumpet, toss her trunk in the air wildly, in fright, and leap across the room - into his arms.  Ohhhhh, that's why he brought the mouse!  Never underestimate the canny caluclations of an Aquarion male.  He always knows exactly what he's doing, however daffey he may appear while he's doing it.

These two are different, she's a gril, he's a boy.  She'd like him to treat her as a woman, he'd like to be treated like a man.  She likes thick carpets and plush, plump furniture.  He'd just as soon sack out in a tent.  She's tuned into peace and quiet - which he calls boredom.  He's tuned in to excitement and controversy - which she calls bedlam.  She may eventually lose her normally well controlled temper and patience, and tell him to go get someone else to pull the splinters out of his toes.  Still if he can teach her to fly a little, and she can teach him how to get it together, who knows?  "If is a little word, with a big meaning, but "love" is a four letter word, with infinite power.

Taurus Man - Aquarius Woman

Since she's as much of an individualist about romance as she is about everything else, this lady makes up her own rules about love as she goes along.  Whatever they may be, whether puritanical or permissive by other people's standards, she's true to them, and to herself.  It's this quality of self-honesty and integity that attracts the Bull to the girl Water Bearer lilke a magnet, and causes him suprisingly often to tolerate her romantic rules, even when they rub against his grain and grit.  He sees her as one of the few honest people left in the world.  One of the few ethical, reliable, dependable,  best wait a minute here.  Bull Boy if you start expecting this woman to be reliable and dependable, you're inviting trouble.

We know the Bull's temper is slow to show, not Aquarius, it is rather sudden and may not always refer to the current event, remember they live in yesterday, today and tomorrow all at the same time.  With Water Girl, she may blow off at something, then come home later with a gift.

They both save things, Bulls like saving old memories, in the form of junk, although he'll claim bashfully and stubbornly, they have some sensible use.  They don't, but she should let him think they do.  Okay, they are both good organizers, and they tend to accumulate.  When it comes to the quality of dependability, Aquarius jumps off the boat.  She'll try to keep a promise, and try to be on time for appointments.  She'll seldom retract anything she's said, if she felt it deeply when she said it, and this is all admirable.  Her nature won't allow it.
She is full of eccentricities, surprises, unexpected.

Bull Boy is most conventional, predictable, even his enemies would not call him eccentric.  Conformist at heart, he is thrown by the Aquarian Age, especially by women who think their equal to men.  Along she comes with her strange clothes, wild hair, odd statements, and sympathy for all sorts and not the least alarmed about what is going on.  She's not alarmed because the Aquarian Age is her age, she knows there's no need to conform to anything, unless you want to.  She's always done what she wanted to, to live and let live.  Bull Boy gets that, as long as he can grumble some, when things don't suit him.
]]> Sat, 29 Mar 2008 09:11:25 GMT Taurus and Capricorn Relationship

The virtues of solidity and dependability surround the Bull and Goat with an aura or earth-colored sureness.  Life to the Goat and Bull is not all grey and brown, nor black and blue.  You'll seldom find pastels, optimistic yellows or extraverted reds in their personal halos.  Who knows what successes lie ahead when a Bull and Goat get together?  They do.  Niether has any doubt as to where they are going.  To the top.  No matter where, all the way to the top, where it's peaceful, quiet, financially comfortable, where they'll be isolated from silly dreamers.

Bulls and Goats are modest and reserved, and they both usemoderation as an inner alarm, or security system to warm them of any wayward emotions which might short circuit the smooth achievement of their ambitions.
These two are not dull, stogy, humorless and unimaginative plodders.

Bulls have music in their souls, Goats are doodlers, especially when their working, some even become painters or writers.  In other words both of these Astrology Signs have creative abilities.  Taurus may be an accomplished musician, whether playing, singing, composing.  At the very least the Bull will sing in the shower, when their sure no one is listening, or tinker on a piano, or harmonica, or something.  As for their sense of humor, they have few equals.  A Bull can slide into a comic monologue with little urging, in the living room or the office.

Our Goats also possess a dry and droll sense of humor.  Their observations of the comedy of life are amusingly clever, even though they normally make their remarks with a straight face, which only makes them funnier.  When something really turns them on, they can weave funny, whimiscal tales of dry humor that would be the envy of a professional comedian.  The point: a combination of Bull and Goat can be warm and amusing as well as steady, stable and steadfast.

Don't, however, expect the Marx Bothers.  While the two of them are funny, their not hilarious, and they won't lose an inch of dignity while they're cutting up.  Not likely you'll find them dancing wildly in noisy disco dives.  A nice quiet evening at home, watching movies of the family's vacation at Yellowstone, is more their speed.  Taurus and Capricorn constitute what has been called "The Backbone of America."

You might see an occasional Cap wearing a feather headdress and love beads, smoking peyote in the park and openly flouting convention.  If you do you can be sure they are a lost and lonely soul, trying to prove something, we don't know what.  It's not a natural state of dress or behavior for the normally staid, formal Cappy, and there's surely a mild neurosis, or dissatisfaction with life lingering in the smoke trailing out of the pipe.

You may also run acrass a rare Bull who drives a flashy yellow Corvet to the bank and shakes a pink tambourine while he makes his large cash deposit, but he's probably trying to get the attention of a female.  In a long run, it's best to know who and what you are and be true to your own Astrolgy Sign.  A Ram should not try to be docile and meek.  A Virgo would be miserable trying to be careless and casual.  A Bull and a Goat should not try to be wild gypsies.  It doesn't become them.  It often becomes Aquarians, but not these two.

Cappy's become adults somewhere around the age of two or three.  Taurus decides on the scope of their future financial empires at around the same age.  It doesn't matter at what age these two team up, their goals are mutual.  Both are wise to the ways of the world.  It's their inner worlds that give them trouble.  Each is brimming over with sentiment, neither will show, each is deeply in need of affection and appreciation they won't ask for.  So, there they stand like two mountains, side by side, starving for human comfort and closeness, each stubbornly resisting the other's timid overtures of friendship or demonstrations of open affection.

Being these two were born old, they must learn to take time to learn to play.


Taurus Woman - Capricorn Man

Have you ever noticed, when people forget things, they try to pretend what they forgot wasn't very important anyway?  A Bull Girl won't resort to such pretense.  She doesn't forget much, and everything is important to her.  All Bulls have powerful memories.

The natural chemistry between the Goat and Bull, makes it appear that their romance will be velvety smooth and free of static.  They'll have their share of problems, but it takes really serious trouble to create a permanent break between two , who once committed, are committed.

Taurus and Cappy are both motivated by the same thing - secutity, emotional and financial.  They have the quality of patience, which eventually opens to devotion, faith and loyalty, turning a casual infatuation, based on chemistry alone, to deeper and enduring love.

At first you may not notice Bull Girl being overly brimming with semtiment, but it's there, deep wells of it, the right man needs to discover it.  Despite her practicality, it shows clearly in the strong attachment she has for home, her material possessions, old love letters, her children and husband.  She resists any major change stubbornly, even when she seems to agree.  Nor does she adapt easily to minor changes in personal habits.

So we have sentimental, soft-hearted, never soft-headed.  She knows what she wants and will pursue it, in her own determined, yet outwardly unhurried and quiet way.  Bull Girl is perfectly willing to wait, not push prematurely.  Goat Boy, finds this trait irresoistbly feminine.  It embodies the ultimate in female sexuality, passivity, which hints to him of the subtle mystery of submission to the dominant masculine force.  This will never fail to both please and turn on the slightly chauvinistic male Goat.  He may not notice the hardness of her head when he's been so entranced by her ways.  So we have a deep throaty, musical voice, intriguing curves, all nicely rounded in the right places designed for cuddling.  Besides that she's a surpurb cook, with a great sense of humor.  Yep, real easy to miss the hard head, stubborness, if pushed too far.

You might think these two are very alike, here's a difference.  Bull Girl seldom burns her energy looking for public acclaim or private approval.  When she's made up her mind she's right about something, all she asks is to be left alone by those who think differently.  Tell her someone is whispering about her or dislikes her, she'll shrug and say, "so".  Then continue doing what she was doing, content in her self-respect.

Goat Boy, cares a lot about both public and private approval.  Secreatly, he wants to reach the top of his goal or dream, then move into a position of power, far enough away from the clamorous crowds not to be annoyed or contraminated by the childish behavior he sees all around him.  Tell a Goat someone disapproves of him, Cappy may shrug, like Bull Girl, may even say, "so".  Privately, he'll frown, perhaps even frustrate himself into a good toothache or stomachache over it, crack his knee cap several times a week, or break out in nervous bumps.  He'll try to raise the opinion of his disapprovers, as soon as he can do so without arousing suspision that it bothered him.  In other words, respect and admiration by everyone around Cappy is important.

Taurus Man - Capricorn Woman

The praictical side of a Taurus man will respond, with as much excitement as a Bull can arouse, to the practical side of a Capricorn girl.  He'll admire her self-sufficiency, and her air of well-bred, dignified reserve will intrigue him, not to mention her quiet beauty.  Taurus doesn't like anything to come easy, including love.  Goat Girl's love never comes easy.  Bull Boy beleives that if he doesn't have to work hard to get something, it's not worth having.  Bull doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve, but it's in the right place, however well hidden from view.  It beats faster when he plays their favorite song, smells her perfume unexpectedly somewhere, or hears a laugh that remids him of her.

Goat Girl is not so bowled over by nostalgic memories when a love affar is over , or by the daily reminders of it while it's still alive. That's not to say she's incapable of deep devotion.  Her loyalty is unmatched by any ther female in the zodiac, once she finds a man she thinks is worth loving wisely and well.  She can also be tender, funny, gentle and comforting, all those female things.  She doesn't want a man to dominate her, and she's not about to submerge herself in sentiment that clouds her judgement or causes her to make a mistake she'll have to live down.  Notice I didn't say a mistake she'll regret.  Cappy doesn't waste time on regret, she considgers it a useless, maudlin emotion.  But she does feel obliged to live down an action not based on good sense.  To her, "living it down," means taking her medicne straight, without whimpering.

Very few Cappy's become hookers or call girls, but their choice has little to do with sentimental morality.  She may be contemptuous of women who sell their sexual favors, not because of moral or emotional objections, but because there are too many middlemenn, and the prostitute ends up a financial loser, as well as a social outcast, and she can work for a limited number of years, then what, it just isn't practical.

So, Bull Boy will admire her common sense and practicality, because they match his own, but will be shocked by her lack of sentiment.  If he can allow their chemistry, and his patience to kick in until she decides to love and marry him, the chances are good, she'll be sentimental with him and their family, including parents and siblings whom she'll stick to like a burr.

Jealousy is not a problem, neither is as mortally wounded, in an emotional sense, by a isolated act of infidelity as other Signs would be.  With these two, it would be like someone robbed of a valued possession.  Bull Boy will become just as furious if an intruder steals his wife's affections as if he had stolen his car or his checkbook, about which he is more or less equally sentimental.  Goat Girl will be as coldly angry if a woman flirts with her husband as if she had caught the vixen trying to steal her mother's heirloom bedspread, or her father's antique clock.  Bottom line, neither is inclined to throw away a secure reltionship or a marriage over a single act of infidelity.  If they do, which is rare, know three things.  1. They never forgive, 2. they will never forget. 3. They never turn back and start again.  What's lost is lost, what's gone is gone.  Finders may be keepers, but losers are never weepers, when they are Bulls and Goats.

They are good for each other, in so many ways.  After while, they can even read one another's thoughts, so closely attuned they become, throughout their years of togetherness.


]]> Thu, 27 Mar 2008 10:47:14 GMT Taurus - Sagittarius Relationship

In no way will a Bull change their slow, steady pace, so it's up to Sagittarius to stop running for a spell, now and then, if these two are ever going to settle down, and cash in on several possible rewards of the relationship.

Sagittarius is symbolized by the Archer and Centaur, half-horse, half-man.  Nearly every Archer dreams of making some sort of career out of travel, and one way or another most of them manage to do just that.  When Sagittarius is playing the clown, or philosopher, using the animal, or the rear end of their Centaur symbol,(you will find them mooning a lot), the Bulls find them highly amusing.  They feel a warm, protective glow toward the cheerful, well meaning, good natured and somewhat awkward horse-half of  Sag. (Rhyme that with badge).

Let the human side of the Archers turn up and Taurus is puzzled and annoyed.  As the Bulls watch the Sag playing the roles of serious idealists, fighting fiercely in the coutroom, the classroom , on a television screen, or on a platform, they're uncertain whether to cheer them - or fear them.

Every Sag, including the extroverted and the introverted ones, is at heart a bright-eyed, bushy tailed optimist, who inwardly beleives that everything will come out in the wash, then cries dramatic tears when it doesn't - serves them right for expecting too much out of life, as far as Taurus is concerned.

Bulls are clear-eyed, smooth-tailed pessimists, who never expect anything to come out in the wash - so when they lose a couple socks at the laundermat, it serves them right for imaging negative possibilities, as far as Sag is concerned.  Sag has little patience for Bulls who go around spreading inky moods.

Sag people sail around, goofing and stumbling a lot, but they're as likely to stumble on a piece of pure, unadulterated luck, as they are to fall head first into an open sewer.  The former accident is due to their marvelous faith, courage and optimism- the latter, to their obstructed line of vision.  Your chances of falling into a hole increase when you're gazing at the sky, shooting arrows into the futute, and not looking where you're going.

Since Bulls keep their eyes more or less fastened on the ground, they can help Sag watch out for open sewers and other traps.  These two can make a dynamite team in the stock market, or in any sort of gambling venture.

Normally, Bulls remain close to family ties, sacrificing much for their loved ones, and bear a bushel of trouble for them.  Sag is also willing to offer a helping hand and a cheery word to their relatives - from a distance.  The typical Archer and their families don't live in one another's pockets.  Sag is more interested in the good of humanity as a whole than in lavishing excessive attention on blood lines.

Both of these Astrology Signs can spot a hypocrite or a phony a mile away, and neither of them is inclined to tell a lie to save face, or merely to be courteous.  Bulls state the truth of the matter as they see it, firmly and clearly.  If they think it may hurt someone, they'll clam up and not speak at all, rather than stir up unpleasantness. Sag on the other hand has a brutal kind of honesty.  Truth sometimes hurts, but the Archers are blissfully unaware of this, when their indignations are flashing.  Its useless to expecht these people to stifle their integrity, but they might try diluting it a bit.  The game of, "dose of their own medicine" never works.  They accept truth cheerfully, and are bewildered when others get uptight over hearing plain facts.

Sag takes life and people literally as they skip around, spreading their jollies and blasting out truth with their jovial vibes.  Bulls are normally placid, patient souls, unless they get hit between the eyes.  Unfortunately, the qualities of placidity and patience often annoy the more umpulsive Archers, when they're exposed to it for long periods.  It may seem to Sag that the dogmatic and cautious Bulls are as slow as a herd of snails.

If these two decide to take a gamble, and combine Sag luck and logic, with Bull shrewdness and common sense, they stand a good chance of making lots of money together.  M-O-N-E-Y.  That message will reach them both loud and clear.  Taurus likes to keep it in the bank.  Sag likes to keep it in circulation.

Taurus Woman - Sagittarius Man

For a man who prides himself on his honesty, a Sag male can be pretty shifty about romance.  He may think he'll always win the game of "Love now, leave later," if he is dating a Taurus, he'd best prepare to lose - either the game or her.

Bull girl falls in love with a Sag man for perfectly good reasons.  He's an idealist, a cheerful companion when she's blue, intelligent conversationalist, a dreamer, a philosopher, astute businessman, and a little boy who needs looking after.  Bull girl can't resist a man like that.

The very least a Bull girl will settle for when she's in love is the status of permanent mistress or common law wife, though she won't like either situation, and she's only biding her time in any case.  What she won't stand for is being part of an Archer's harem.  She isn't illogically jealous, she is, however, possessive, which means that her idea of love is based on exclusivity.  Lady Bull won't be suspicious of her man without good cause, but neither will she give him yards of rope to string her along.

She's a warm and sensuous woman, yet it isn't easy for her to express the emotions she feels so strongly.  She can only show her love through the sense of touch.  To her that should be enough, and silence is golden when she's making love.  But, Sag idealist wants to analyze, then express, both physically and verbally, the miracle of fulfillment.  He may feel he's caressing the Sphinx, and she could decide she's being loved by the actual Centaur, half blazing with animan passion and half abstracted in thoughts which are beyond the horizon of reality.

The Sag is mental activity, needs companionship with men and women of every walk of life.  He's defiant of public opinion, uncompromising in his honesty, indifferent toward domestic life, and detached from his own parental family ties.

Bull girl is the exact opposite.  She wants a warm, quiet, cozy atmosphere, including family.  The Archer will be impatient with Bull girl's lack of enthusiastic reaction to his spontaneity, while she is driven to fury by his scattered dreams, procrastination and throughtlessness.  This is a man who whilstls before breakfast, and this is a woman who is positive the means he'll cry before supper.  They translate Mother Goose somewhat differently.

Only if she's willing to thaw her frozen silences when he needs her understanding - and only if he's willing to curb his firery temper when he can't get his own way, can they find happiness.

Taurus Man - Sagittarius Woman


Sagittarius is just as firery and self-righteous when they're well informed as they are when they don't know what they're talking about.  Chances are she will have a degree or two, and speak a couple languages.  Either way, she'll find tons of topical and tangled issues of the day to analyze with her cool logic and brutal honesty.  Then she'll attempt to straighten them out with her optimism.  Makes breakfast with the morning paper a lively meal.  Her discussions make up for burned toast and un-sectioned grapefruit, a degree in cooking she probably does not have.

Archer girl's high spirits help her snap back from most misfortunes like a rubber band.  She looks on the bright side of things, and her sunny disposition makes the Bull Boy smile indulgently at the idealism and naivete behind it.  She doesn't recover as quickly from a broken heart as she does from smashed ambitions, fractured dream, or a period of poverty.  Unrequited love, meaning love she gives freely to a man who abuses her trust, gets her down, and sometimes keeps her there.  The gentle understanding of a patient Bull could heal her emotional scars and, at the same time, teach her that not all men are fickle phonies who break promises.

She's fond of arugment, enjoys crossing swords with a good antagonist.  Her swift flashes of logic give her a sharp insight, and she's a skillful debater, and painfully honest.  Trouble is, Taurus is not fond of arugment and debate, or even an overly long friendly discussion.  She may then, invite packs of assorted friends over to camp out, hang around, and keep her wits sharpened.  That will only make things worse.  Mr Bull does not like his castle cluttered with noisy strangers, and it will take a good deal of emotional elasticity to ease the tight tensions.

The subjects on the double bill of many of their comic-tradedies will be his stubborness, and her extravagance.  As for how long the quarrels last, it will depends on her awareness of his nature.  She'll forget her own anger quickly.  He can pout for days unless she knows the secret to his heart.  With Bull boy, one hard squeeze, and one gentle kiss, will tear down all his obstinate defenses.


Archer girl is quick to reach out for love, if the hand she grabs and hods tightly offers friendship.  She's impulsive, excited by mental qualities, and loyal, once she becomes sincerely attached.  So is he.  But he won't eat egg fu yung in a resturant forever.  Bull boy thinks a woman's place is in the home, with strong emphasis on the kitchen and the bedroom.  If that's where she's happiest, and willing to spend a reasonable amount of time with him, their relationship will be lasting.

If she calls him Buttercup, not in front of others, he'll call her Honeycakes, if she tickles his ear and scratches his head, he'll grow ecstatic, docile and sweetly manageable.  If he stops telling her to shut up, and tries a little harder to understand her honesty, to take a genuine interest in her opinions and excitement, she might blunt her arrows a little, and maybe even cook some egg fu yung herself, at home, where she belongs.



]]> Fri, 21 Mar 2008 13:15:28 GMT Taurus - Scorpio Relationship

It isn't always a horror, the potential is there, however.  When they really try, Taurus and Scorpio often get along well, sometines great.  Scorpio is everything Taurus wants to be, and Taurus is everything Scorpio would like to be.  Each would rather be caught dead than admit it.  Scorpio tends to live in two worlds at the same moment.
The world of wherever their compulsive soul yearning takes them and the visible, material world, believed in and seen by ordinary mortals.  Scorpio's float somewhere between both, a law unto themselves, as inscrutable as the Greay Pyramid of Giza.  To disguise themselves, and keep people from seeing them dangling in the air, most Scoprio's wear a mask.  It could be a mask of sweet gentleness, icy detachment or cold practicality.  Beneath it they are all smoldering, boiling, bubbling cauldrons of intense emotion.

Taurus owns no false faces.  Bulls live firmly and tangibly in one world only - Earth.  Good old familiar Terra Cotta.
They are what they are, and nothing or no one will ever change them from what they were born to be, mountains of dependability, courage, patience and determination.  Taurus wasn't born with Scorpio's power of penetration and steely will, nor the Eagle's awesome regenerative potential, they do have the true and genuine inner calm Scorpio longs to posses, the total emotional control Scorpio prentends to own.

Bulls wouldn't bother to plod across the street to either own or imitate Scorpio's emotional intensity, but they would travel thousands of miles, even leap over barbed wire fences - uphill, if no one was looking, to gain Scorpio's ability to know without any kind of calculation - to simply know.  Bulls would give all their gold to be able, like the Eagles to stare into someone's soul and learn all that person's secrets.  If only they could master this ability, Bulls could build their empires faster.  If Scorpio could master the Taurus impassivity toward Life's magnetic emotional storms, they could accomplish their mysterious purposes with far less toll on the inner psyche.

When these two get together in any sort of relationship, business, family, friendship or love, and decide to lend each other the use of their individual talents and virtues, working side by side, they can change destiny.  A blend of their qualities through a close relationship, is never bland.  It can tremble and shake with both highs and lows.

One of the qualities Taurus possesses, and Scorpio usually lacks, is a sense of the ridiculous.  There are Eagles who possess a fine sense of humor, but it's seldom along the lines of the absurd.  Scorpio's appreciate humor, but only when it can be seen or projected in an impersonal way.  Such as on stage or screen or among friends.  Very few Scorp's find in hilarious when the giggles are at their own expense, and they're not cherry back-slapper types, as the Bulls can be, when they're feeling expecially jolly.  The typical Scorp will chuckly sincerely at funnies only when in the company of good and trusted friends.

Both of these Astrology Signs have some things in common.  They both have a tendency to be reserved with strangers.  Neither of them are blabbermouths, and neither is inclined to make long speeches unless there's something important to say.  Also, both equally dislike being rudely questioned by inquisitive people.  Their reactions to such intrusions are quite different.  Scorpio will use subtle strategies to keep their secrets secret.  If subtlety fails, Scorpio will simply lie, justifying it as an inalienable right when dealing with those who would violate their sacred privacy. (All other times Scoprio has a high degree of integrity).

Bulls have an equal sense of privacy, and you won't find them telling all they know, any more than Scorps do.   Bulls are not subtle, and they'll seldom bother with a lie.  Taurus will squelch a prying person directly, with a plain statement of fact, like, "Mind your own business, buzz off".

Taurus Woman - Scorpio Man

Bull girl is practical.  She's not flighty, impulsive or a misty dreamer.  In her steady heart, passion is not easily or quickly aroused.  It grows slowly into fullness.  But once her senses are caught by someone, when she notices the scent of his hair, reacts to the sound of his voice, sight of his walk, his smile, quivering inside when he touches her hand, her practical common sense may be suspended indefinitely.  A Bull girl in love is pretty vulnerable.  She won't change her mind once she recognizes her lover as the man she's been waiting for.  She's possessive in love, but that's not the same thing as sudden flares of jealousy, Taurus is not jealous.  Jealousy is an emotion that has roots in a basic insecurity.  Passessiveness describes the pride a Taurus takes in anything owned, the devotion lavished upon it, whether it's a man, or an heirloom bedspread.

Scorpio man understands the difference between the two words, and will give little reason to experience jealousy, but rather enjoys possessiveness.  For all his reputation as a sex symbol, he seldom looks upon sex as a pleasant pastime or a series of casual encounters.  To him sex is the reason for both life and death, the doorway to each, the one mystery he may never solve.  When he finds the right partner, his concept of sex will be pure, though intense, and experimental promiscuity is not part of that concept.

He's a blend of cool reason and hot emotion, he'll expose only the cool reason, keeping hot emotion secret.
Scorpio becomes involved through emotions, or shows disinterest.  Taurus girl has little sympathy for the violent extremes of love and hate.  To her, its exhausting and unnecessary strain on the nerves.  This will be the underlying cause behind all their disagreements, major or minor.

Taurus Man - Scorpio Woman

Okay, this is not an easy female to live with.  She's fascinating, feminine, intelligent, loyal and passionate.  But she's not an innocent, wide-eyed maiden, who is willing to become a love object.  Scorpio lives in the emotions, but sometimes they're bottled up for years.  That's why she seems so docile, then erupts without warning, or disappears into forzen silence, which is even harder to cope with and certainly more difficlut to understand.

For a time she'll go along with what her man says, unless he becomes too demanding.  Then she'll show her hidden strength.  Tact and compromise are not her strong points, for that matter, they're not his either.  Neither sign has much idea of what it's like to see the other person's point of view.  No, that's not quite it.  Bull's have trouble seeing another point of view.  Scorpio sees it clearly, with her uncanny perception.  But she prefers her own wishes to what her ouija board may tell her someone else's are.

 It bears repeating, sex between these two is awsome.  To her it's full of strange surprises and sensual ecstasies, it is respected as a sacred act of love.  Sex is never cheap to a Scorpio, she'll insist on being loved for her whole self, not just her physical appeal.  So will he.  He may never comprehend their lovemaking in as much depth as she, but he'll certainly enjoy it.

His comic sense may be a cause for tension between them.  Bull boy needs and occasional practical joke and a constant touch of humor to make his life, which is serious enough, bright and bearable.  She may laugh at his comic remarks, but her eyes won't be smiling, and he'll soon learn she can't stand to be teased, because she's never been able to laugh at herself.  Instead of being annoyed, if she could let some of his laughter linger in her heart, she might find it's the dimension she needs to color her own emotions lighter.

The way it is with Taurus and Scorpio, no light flirtations, or casual affair.  It will be frigid disinterest, total disaster - or a devotion which will last a lifetime, and beyond that, past forever.
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Taurus - Libra Relationship

In no way, Bulls, is Libra passive.  Libra may appear to be a pushover for a tougher personality.  This charming person, this dimpled, beautiful or handsome creature, with bright intelligent eyes, a smile that warms the heart, the serentiy of spirit, a bland, innocent expression, a voice that sounds like church bells, ringing high in the Alps.  Surely a person of such gentle persuasion couldn't be a threat. 

That Libra smoothness of manner is a comouflage which enables the sharp spear of the Libra's mind to penetrate, with little resistance.  Libra knows well that the immovable obstinacy of Taurus is nothing but obstacles to success.  They're detrimental to the carrying out of one's real purpose- winning the controversy and getting one's own way, which is all that counts, to Libra.

Once a Taurus is pushed too far, he or she has not lack of courage.  When it reaches push -to-pull, the Bulls of any age, and both sexes, will defend both their personal principles and their loved ones, fiercely.  However, Taurus sees no sense in stirring up muddy waters or risking violent agitation, just to win a minor point.  Libra does.  Winning a point or decision, however minor, major - or in the middle.  To a Libra, everything needs to be weighed and judged.

This explains why Libra's need to rest a lot, they get so weary from all that decision making and mental activity from morning to night.  Most Bulls get wear and exhausted just listening to a LIbra comtemplating all those decisions.  It sounds like insanity to them.  Just do what you feel is right, and shut up about it.  To the Bulls, constant argument is futile, wateful occupation they can imagine.  No one ever wins an argument except the person who manages to fall asleep and snooze until it's over.

Did you know, every Libra, I mean every Libra, has dimples somewhere on their body.

In an argument or debate Libras use what is known as "Socratic method" of discussion.  You have to watch them closely, listen carefully.  A Taurus is too busy resisting to pay attention and may trip on their own obstinacy.

Taurus Woman - Libra Man

It's possible Mr Libra will find he's made the right deciion by not making a decision to charm his way out of the Taurus girl's feminine, appealing wiles.  They'll probably be as happy as tow turtledoves, as they walk, hand in hand, from room to room, through their rose-covered cottage in the country, or if their dreams have been delayed, through their soot-covered apratment in the city.

There's hardly a square foot of space, in or around their home, where they'll disagree.  Except the front porch. That's where she may sit and wait - and wait - and wait - for him to come home, on those nights he's gone to the gym to work out - and go out on the town afterwords with his friends, and maybe the basement.

The basement is where she'll spend time helping him keep up his reputation as a handsome Libra charmer.  It requires stacks of clean shirts and socks.  They must be folded just so, and put away, just so.  He gets nervous when his socks don't match. 

Libra men sometimes behave as though they're trying to drain Life of every ounce of knowledge and every drop of pleasure, reading best sellers, rapping with intellectuals, catching films, plays, and concerts, admiration of pretty girls at parties.

A Taurus woman prefers to stay home, and cuddle by the fire, maybe go out once a week.  She can't make jogging a way of life.  She needs other interests, and most of them lie in togetherness, the two of them, hiking, camping, remodeling the house, making common sense out of the present so they can build a future, buy a house in the country, and leave the metropolis.  She was not born for condominiums.  She was born for barns, hay and fresh air, country roads to stroll on, with the man she loves.

Not all Libra men are playboys, then again many are, either way he'll insist on keeping his intellect sharp, and one of the ways he does is by being gregarious.  If she wants to continue playing happy scenes with him, she'll have to accept the mingling at intermission.  Wherever and however he does his mingling, she should get out of the basement and off the front porch, into her prettiest dress, and tag along beside him, without pouting.

Taurus Man - Libra Woman

A Libra woman is unpredictable.  You never know how she's going to manage to get her own way.  All you can be sure of is that she'll get it.  Gee, a sweet, feminine girl like her, bossy!  Yes, but she won't advertise it.
A Libra girl is nearly always beautiful.  Even if her features are plain, her stunning smile makes you think she's beautiful.  She had dimples, her eyes are soft, her voice is clear and lovely, her manners are graceful.  Outwardly, she's an angel of femininity.  Inwardly, she's driven by force, strength, courage, positive action, penetrate, dominate and conquer.  She can manage her own career, and she's adept at getting everything she wants out of life - or from a man.  Doesn't mean she's invulnerable to hurt, but she wears a tougher suit of armour to protect her, than her manner might suggest, and she recuperates quickly.

Taurus recuperates slowly from a broken heart.  All the more reason for him to be sure he knows the rules before he plays any romantic games with a Libra girl.  He makes decisions slowly, after careful thought, he doesn't like to discuss until it's settled in his mind, and he seldom changes his opinion.  She acts with equal deliberation and seldom changes her mind, and once she's made up her mind she acts quickly.  She gets her unfair reputation of being undecisive because of the time it takes for her to deliberate and make up her mind.
Taurus deliberates in silence, Libra needs lengthly discussions fo pro and con that can last far into the night, and may resent his lack of enthusiasm.

Bull man can sooth her restless spirit, and guide her through her moments of indicision.  His warmness and humor, reliability and common sense are often just the qualities she's been searching for.  Another thing about these two is that her optimism can act as a beautiful balance for the Bull's natural tendency toward pessimism.  No one can cheer Bull boy as evvortlessly as this charming lady.  He may balk if she tries to drag him into her social whirl.  But he'll be lovable when she plies her wide smile and coaxes him with her maple-sugar voice.  He privately admires her intelligence, as long as she acknowledges the fact of masculine superiority.  It's a rare Bull who truly believes, in his heart, that men and women are equal in all ways.  Bull boy will be proud of the way his Libra lady manages things so smoothly.  The trick is to keep him from discovering that her real talent lies in managing him.   Shhhhhhhhhh.

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Taurus - Virgo Relationship

Virgo admires the Taurus strength of purpose, although they have little tolerance for the Bull's stubborness in the face of an obvious mistake.  Taurus is somewhat in awe of the quick Virgo mind, though the Bulls have little sympathy for health nuts, clenliness bugs or the finer nauances of Virgo hair-splitting.

So, what are a few minor differences between dating friends?  These two find many things to be friendly about, not the least of which is common sense.  Virgos remember every flaw they have ever seen, from a torn shower curtain to a character defect in a date.  The memories are painful, and they keep the Virgins eternally disillusioned, not to mention pessimestic about human nature.  Taurus remembers everything they have seen also, but they don't want to remember.  Remember, Taurus has a nagging voice inside that tells them wasting time is a sin.

A date for these two would never be fast paced, and it is a wonder for all to admire, that they even got the courage to get together in the first place.  Once they manage to say hello to one another and actually make a date to meet, which both will be on time for, the relationship will flower slowly, surely and serenely.

Taurus usually wins over Virgo through patience, Virgo doesn't.  While Virgins can appear to be tranquil, calm and patient on the surface, but their minds are constantly ticking away, and tocking them with inner frustrations when things don't happen as quickly as they think they should.

Taurus wins another way also, they tend to be more successful, in bigger ways.  Virgo doesn't mind as they don't have a burning need  to build a great empire.  Virgo's urge is to serve the world and all the individuals in it, or on it, by pointing out their faults, bringing order out of chaos and anarchy, and accumulate some sense of security for the future.

Taurus wants to retire into seclusion as well, and usually have definite ideas of where it will be.  The courtry sooner or later.  Which is why they endure the confusion and frivolity of the cities, no matter how many years it takes, they don't want to count on Mother Nature for their livelyhood.

Taurus Woman - Virgo Man

It's almost impossible for a Tuarus woman to seduce a Virgo man.  But she shouldn't allow herself to feel inrerior over this.  It's almost impossilbe for any woman to seduce a Virgo man.  This man can't bear the thought of any sort of self-surrender.  It implies a lack of self-discipline.  He's not interested in conquest either. Their natures, goals and desires are similar.  They're both steady, sensible types, who would rather be caught doing almost anything than messing around with fantasy, flightiness or fickleness.  She's soothing, and has a nice, quiet voice.  He's gentle and has clear enunciation.  They don't get on one anothers nerves.

What got him to call for a date, you ask.  Comfort, a female who speaks and moves so sensuously and slowly seldom makes mistakes.  You have to be a Virgo to get this, being comfortable with someone who's not always making mistakes and goofs you feel compelled to catch and correct.  You know, compulsive criticism isn't much fun, it can be exhaustin

Niether gets angry often or easily.  We know by now, when the Bull does, it's quite a blast, and can leave deep scars.  Should Virgo work up a snit, is doesn't last long.  Worry is another issue.  Virgos don't air their issues.  This is not a good thing, as they keep it bottled up.  This does not bode well for the digestive system or the subconscious or the psyche.  It's also the major cause of atrhritis and rheumatism.

He may not understand why she needs to be surrounded with so many luxuries, she may complain that his ideas of comfort are sparse, but neither will throw away money carelessly, so finances are seldom a bone of contention.

Taurus Man - Virgo Woman

Virgo girls turn up their noses at messes.  Most are neat as pins.  Her mind is well dusted, and sliced into precise thoughts - and there's likely no loose tobacco in the bottom of her purse.

One of the barriers between these two is that Bull man tends to be untidy.  Some downright sloppy, and a few Bulls are just plain slobs.  They love beauty and luxury around them, but they're too busy earning the bread to be bothered picking lint off their trousers, combing their hair, sweeping, hanging clothes, or polishing their shoes.  Virgo girls moral attitide is intellectual, and her emotions are seldom involved.  Virgos are as curious as they are critical.  How can you correct a flaw if you haven't examined the plate?  So she is often accused of a stuffy sort of marality she doesn't possess.

The Bull won't talk much about is ethics or morals.  He feels what is right or wrong, then acts, with determination, and very little reflection on the intricacies of the issues.  When their different methods of arriving at the truth lead them to the same conclusion, things are good.  Should they take a detour, these lovers can bury each other in frozen silence and unbending stubbornness.

While Virgo girl may, mistakenly be thought of as a Miss Innocent, know she is not.  Bull man is a coarse, erotic creature of lust, snorting in passion at all the cows in the pasture.

The Virgin and the Bull can spend their lives together drenched in the ecstasy of supposing all the small and ordinary wonders abound them.  It's such a fiercely gorgeous, and natural, "high", if they don't dmother it by expecting too much.  The eternal perfection she seeks is a mirage.  The security he seeks - likewise.  They're both looking for a sure thing.  But the nearest they may ever come to a sure thing is each other.
]]> Fri, 07 Mar 2008 15:46:28 GMT TAURUS - LEO RELATIONSHIP

Bulls need lots of loyalty and affection in order to be sure they're loved and apprecited.  Leos need lots of worship and compliments in order to be sure they're loved and admired.  Neither get enough proof that they're cherished, even from  compatible people.

These two Astrolgy Signs don't harmonize two well.  The tension starts like this, Leo is much too self-centered to give the strong, silent Bulls the absolute devotion and obedience they insist on.  Taurus is much too stubborn to give the vain, proud Leos the unquestioning worship they demand contunually. Both are good organizers, and each possess an unusual amount of emotional dependability.

Sometimes, the Leo will depend on the more tranquil, stable Taurus to cope with an unpleasant situation, then rob the Bull of all the credit of the accomplishment.  However, this does not bother the Bull, the last thing they want is personal glory.  They won't turn their backs on it, if it is offered to them, but they can take it or leave it alone.  Taurus is more interested in cash appreciation and emotional peace of mind.

One area of potential agreement between Taurus and Leo is promoting and building.  Leo loves to promote grandose schemes and large ideas, and all Bulls delight in contemplating the financial return of what might be the seeds of the empire they are always building.  Taurus doesn't mind waiting for success.

Leo's who are fanatically fond of freedom, refuse to accept, or even to recognize, limitation.  Their attitude is ever hopeful and determined.  It never occurs that they can't win all the chips with one grand toss of the dice.

In the long run, the Bull believes the safest way to double your money is to fold it over once and put it in your pocket.  That sums up the Taurus thinking about either romantic or financial gambling.  When Bulls are young, they think security is having money in the bank, and having devoted love of their mate.  When they get older, they are positive.

Only thing Leo is positive about is their own ability to make it happen.  The Leo warm-heartedness and nobility of spirit, when blended with their fairh in themselves, draws others to them including Lady Luck, who often showers upon them generous amounts of both love and gold.

It's only when Leo starts giving those royal commands, which Taurus interprests as being shoved, that trouble starts. 

Taurus Woman -Leo Man

Every Taurus woman has a love for music.  She has a rich musical voice,  whether singing somewhere, or telling the postman she's waiting for a package.

Whether he deserves being compared to a King, his private ambition, to rule those around him, including his own mate.  A Taurus girl desires to submit to her man, to stick by his side through it all.  But being ruled sounds like being pushed, and no Bull will tolerate being pushed.  Taurus women are capable of deep, lasting devotion and a warm-hearted love, they don't toss around careless compliments, they have not use for flattery, and think worship is for the weak-minded.  Lions require and demand compliments, flattery and worship, you can see what's often missing in the relationship.

Should they have a disagreement, both respond well to non-verbal appoligies.  Both prefer tangible, touching, romantic overatures.  Leo cannot handle verbal apologies gracefully, Taurus girl is immune to flowery words and persuasive arguments, she wants action.  Her conservation of words isn't quite soothing to the Lion, outside the bedroom.

When he is enthusiastic about something, she needs to respond with attentive approval, otherwise his ego gets bruised.  Maybe lots of coffee will keep her awake when he's on stage.

The most common complaint of the Lion about Taurus girl is that she lacks enthusiasm.  He often feels like shaking her into action, and shouting, "Say something! Do something! Anything at all.  Don't just sit there."
Her most common complaint can be summed up in four words, "Much ado about nothing."


Taurus Man - Leo Woman

Can a Bull aspire to own a queen?  Most Bulls are more at home in a china shop than in the presence of royalty, and we know how flustered they are in a china shop.  The Bull feels all the pomp and circumstance is too much fuss.

Lion girl is looking for a man who sees her as a Queen, who can provide her with the kind of live she knows she deserves.  An existence with beautiful clothes, parties and brainy converstions, rings on her fingers, bells on her toes, you get the picture.  She'll feel a bit tense and restless when her Taurus man expects her to hang around in their small apartment, bringing him beer and pretzels, while he watches television and reads the paper.  She may choose to bring him a listing of homes for sale, and a picture of Perrier.  Remember folks, don't try to push a Bull.

Bulls don't back down.  They either hold their ground - or they charge.  It would be better if they were holding their ground, you don't want to risk his charging.  If Lion girl can wait, not rush him, he may well give her all the things she wants, including the rings, bells etc.  He may not reach his goal of security overnite, but she'll never find a man with a better chance.

The Bull and the Lioness will have to start listening to each other's silent pleading hearts-when she's really saying, beneath her huaghtiness, is "Please, show me how much you love me" - and what he's saying beneath his stony stubborness, is, "Please, promise you'll stay, and never leave me."
]]> Tue, 04 Mar 2008 15:21:09 GMT Taurus - Cancer Relationship

More than likely these two Astrology Sign people will never do much casual dating, they both like being settled.
Cancer love their mothers, their homes, money, babies and food.  Taurus loves money, their homes and mothers, food and babies.  You can see how much they are alike, except for a few minor changes in the order of priorities.

Both want people to be nice to them.  In fact they need people to be nice to them.  The nicest thing Cancer can do for Taurus is to cook up a big dinner, then sit around talking about how to make more money.  The nicest thing Taurus can do for Cancer is to buy an almanac to keep track of the phases of the Moon, this way the Bull can be on track with Cancer's changing moods.

Cancer is serious most of the time, and cautious.  They also have periods of black melancholy.  Then they turn funny and their humor has everyone laughing.  Sometimes Cancer people are silent and timid, other times they talk your ear off.  As you might note they are moody.  Being they are ruled by the Moon, you might say moony.  You might not know for sure who will show up for your date, unless you are aware of the moon phases.

Just because they have so much in common, doesn't mean Taurus understands Cancer moods.  To the Bull it's a waste of time and common sense to weep and moan about a situation.  Taurus seldom weeps or moans, and they are rarely moody. However, once a Taurus digs in their heels, and get set for a spell of the blues, rare as it is, they're not kidding around.  When a Bull has a mood, you'd best know it's a good, strong one, and it's going to last awhile, without interrupted by silly fits of giggles.

Cancer moods usually don't last more than a few hours, a few days at the very most, and cover a variety of emotions, humor to criticism, from intelligent, interesting conversation to shyness.  They switch from laughter to tears, from faith to cynicism, from bitterness to joy, and then snap at you, "What do you mean , I'm moody?  You're the one who's hard to get along with."

Because Cancers are so sensitive, they're aware of what's going on what's going on inside of people, therefore they are usually compassionate.  This sympathy comes and goes, especially if they are looking for sympathy themselves, which is often, and in particular if they are looking for a loan of money.

It is interesting, that both  signs are generous with  their elders and children,  but everyone in between  they're tough on.   This might suggest a dutch date situation, or some dating problems and misunderstandings.  Lets see,  who  picks up the check.   You may start the date with a  happy  -go  lucky Cancer and end up mopping up tears.

The reason they are slow to spend their money, is they are thinking about the future.  There's always a rainy day.  There are Universal Laws constantly working.  If you want a rainy day, you'll get one.  If you want love , happiness and security, you'll get that too.  I say concentrate on the latter.

Here is a great dating idea for these two.  Go to dinner, be it a casual date place, or a more formal dining.
Both love to eat, and cook, controlled diets are difficult.  As for  drinking  Cancer is more likely than Taurus, but  its  more now and then .  Should Taurus  be tempted to indulge too often, there could be trouble.  The Bull hates excess, and rarely messes with it, should they slip, they do so like they do everything else, grand scale.

Disagreements are not loud, both react to hurt or aggravation by slinking off to brood.  Doesn't make the misunderstanding easier, but it does keep things quiet.  I should remind you about the rare and horrifying times every ten years or so, when Bulls find themselves in a china shop and someone waves a red flag.
These two also do very well in any business venture.  Taurus builds, Cancer runs.

Taurus Woman - Cancer Man

The Cancer man secretly wants his woman to baby him.  Taurus woman loves to spoil her man.  Is this love at first sight?  Not quite.

Cancer doesn't rush into anything, including love.  Rushing is not in the Cancer nature, it's impossible for the Crab to advance in a straight line.  Have you ever noticed that all Cancers have a side -waddle.  Taurus girl isn't the type to leap overboard into a sea of passion singing songs of love.  She wants to be wooed, and this means really wooed.  Love between these two takes time, lots of it, months or years, not days or weeks.
Once she commits, she knows how to keep her man happy, he is a lover to end all lovers, particularly in persistency.

Two people who love can't avoid hurting each other can't avoid hurting each other occasionally, but with the Bull and Crab, hurt can last longer than most.  They'll have to realize this is an unnecessary waste of time, and emotional strain, since the hurt is unintentional.

Taurus Man - Cancer Woman

We know Taurus is a slow starter in love.  Though he has an enormous capacity for live, it doesn't burst into verbal or physical commitment overnight.  Once it does, its permanent.  This is what Cancer girl needs and wants.  Like her, he won't give his complete self until the right woman arrives.

Most Taurus men, not all, don't experience love in its total sexual and emotional fullness until they're out of their teens, or even years later, never forget the Bull is capable of making up for lost time, and the depth and intensity of his love is well worth waiting for.

The Bull is possessive, not jealous, and his approach to love is solid, sensible and practical, seldom emotionally erratic, capricious or unduly enthusiastic, but cozy.  The two of them may be alike in may ways, this is one where they differ.  Moon girl can allow unfounded jealousy to torture her into moods of deep depression, or worse, a suspicious, bitter or clinging attitude that can infuriate a Bull. 

The Taurus man will lavish enough affection on the Cancer woman, to banish the fears she's accumulated since childhood that nobody really wants or needs her because most people are more capable than she.  He does.  He wants her, and he needs her, and he'll show it in unmistakable ways, if she'll let him.


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